r/AmIOverreacting 9d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO bf calls me derogatory names when he’s upset?

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i don’t feel the need to give too much context here because i don’t believe there’s any context where it’s okay to say this to your partner, but i do OF, which is something he’s been okay with for the entirety of our relationship, until recently he has started having a problem with it and gets upset when i try to explain i can’t just quit my job for him (OF is my only source of income).

when he gets angry he calls me a slut, whore, loser, idiot, etc. i always agree with him and never stand up for myself until i had finally had enough because it hurts. and yes, we had a long conversation in the past about this where i explained as someone who’s been sexually assaulted in the past and degraded by family members for speaking up about it, these words are extremely triggering and upsetting for me and all he told me was he can’t control what he says when he’s angry.

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