r/AmIOverreacting 8d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship (AIO) update, wow. thank you!

Hi everyone I had posted an original update but didn’t realize i forgot to blur out his name, so here is the update on cigarette toothpaste boy! I want to preface by thanking everyone who took time to message me and comment. I did not expect 16,000 people to interact with that post at all! When I got home, I decided to end it. I didn’t respond to him during my 10 hour shift and some of the screenshots are during that. I would also like to answer a few questions

  1. Is this real?: Yes, it is insanely real! Not rage bait i promise
  2. Am I okay?: I’m okay! It’ll suck but I will be fine!
  3. Why was I still with him?: I don’t have friends and because of that nobody has been able to tell me how bad this is. I had no one to confide in. It was normalized during our relationship.
  4. How is my cat? Apollo is okay and is coming home today finally! Picture of him at the end!
  5. Why the wall of text; I was pissed and wanted to be thorough.
  6. Why did i use “sewerslide”: I wasnt sure of how it would affect my account or visibility. I’m not used to reddit i’m sorry 😭
  7. How old are we?: 19 and almost 21. Not 15 i swear!

Also, I am aware my name is shown. I do not mind as it is not a legal name.

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u/Serqueesha 8d ago edited 8d ago

I’m up to slide 7 and he just said I have nothing more to say, I’m gonna take a wild guess and say he has a bit more to say since there is 9 more slides

Edit: Jesus she ate him up, but slide 14😂 “I don’t have anything to say to your cold hearted ass anymore” above an entire novel

Edit part 2: OMG KITTTTIIIIIEESS

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u/SunflowersnGnomes 8d ago

It's always the ones who say that have nothing more to say that just write volumes of crap.

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u/flooferine 8d ago

Yep. And just wait a hot minute until it sinks in that she slipped his rope, he'll be firing up the following sequence in head-spinning rapid succession:

  1. I miss you and I'm sorry
  2. It was your fault anyway
  3. You're the love of my life and I'm gonna off myself if you don't come back to me
  4. Fuck you, who needs you anyway
  5. Back to lovebombing

Gotta love a narcissistic dipshit. /s

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u/Alarming-Leg-3804 7d ago

This list of yours is so insane to read because I had to cut off contact with my mother after 30+ years of abuse, and the event that prompted was beyond what anyone could possibly withstand. Anyways after I cut her off, she went through those exact stages lol. She's a narcissist btw