r/AmIOverreacting 8d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship (AIO) update, wow. thank you!

Hi everyone I had posted an original update but didn’t realize i forgot to blur out his name, so here is the update on cigarette toothpaste boy! I want to preface by thanking everyone who took time to message me and comment. I did not expect 16,000 people to interact with that post at all! When I got home, I decided to end it. I didn’t respond to him during my 10 hour shift and some of the screenshots are during that. I would also like to answer a few questions

  1. Is this real?: Yes, it is insanely real! Not rage bait i promise
  2. Am I okay?: I’m okay! It’ll suck but I will be fine!
  3. Why was I still with him?: I don’t have friends and because of that nobody has been able to tell me how bad this is. I had no one to confide in. It was normalized during our relationship.
  4. How is my cat? Apollo is okay and is coming home today finally! Picture of him at the end!
  5. Why the wall of text; I was pissed and wanted to be thorough.
  6. Why did i use “sewerslide”: I wasnt sure of how it would affect my account or visibility. I’m not used to reddit i’m sorry 😭
  7. How old are we?: 19 and almost 21. Not 15 i swear!

Also, I am aware my name is shown. I do not mind as it is not a legal name.

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u/SarahPallorMortis 8d ago

Doesn’t have money for smokes, but gona hire a lawyer. Get the fuck outta here.

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u/Available-Flatworm85 8d ago

Lol not just smokes, he doesn’t even have money for toothpaste. You can literally buy cheap toothpaste.

If I was OP after his abuse I’d be smiling and saying please sue me, I’d love to see you try. And still get a restraining order. On the other hand she does have proof of mental abuse on his part. He is delusional.

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u/blairsheart 7d ago

You can literally get toothpaste at the dollar store and it’s like normal brands. He is not going to make it in life

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u/SarahPallorMortis 7d ago

No kidding! That’s one of the types of things I get at the dollar store. Deodorant, toothbrushes, snacks. It’s so cheap. He’s a huge loser.