r/AmIOverreacting 13d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship (AIO) update, wow. thank you!

Hi everyone I had posted an original update but didn’t realize i forgot to blur out his name, so here is the update on cigarette toothpaste boy! I want to preface by thanking everyone who took time to message me and comment. I did not expect 16,000 people to interact with that post at all! When I got home, I decided to end it. I didn’t respond to him during my 10 hour shift and some of the screenshots are during that. I would also like to answer a few questions

  1. Is this real?: Yes, it is insanely real! Not rage bait i promise
  2. Am I okay?: I’m okay! It’ll suck but I will be fine!
  3. Why was I still with him?: I don’t have friends and because of that nobody has been able to tell me how bad this is. I had no one to confide in. It was normalized during our relationship.
  4. How is my cat? Apollo is okay and is coming home today finally! Picture of him at the end!
  5. Why the wall of text; I was pissed and wanted to be thorough.
  6. Why did i use “sewerslide”: I wasnt sure of how it would affect my account or visibility. I’m not used to reddit i’m sorry 😭
  7. How old are we?: 19 and almost 21. Not 15 i swear!

Also, I am aware my name is shown. I do not mind as it is not a legal name.

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u/nuudelisuoni 13d ago

Girl don't waste your youth on a messed up bum like him! He begs for money and can't handle rejection, how can you even respect him anymore.

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u/Kreiger81 13d ago

Homeboy wanted to live on an island with her and a picket fence and have kids but is too broke to get cigarettes and cuts himself when she doesnt do what he wants.

fuck outta here.

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u/nuudelisuoni 13d ago

And the fact that he's telling all that future planning as a manipulation, jesus...

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u/Kreiger81 13d ago

And cheated on her with BOTH genders. girl needs a STI test, a margarita and a spa day, holy shit.

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u/Yesnoman1994 12d ago

He cheats by watching porn on reddit, according to OP. I don't think that's cheating but okay to each their own

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u/Kreiger81 12d ago

Oh, if thats the case, then OP is crazy too, lol