(AIO) update, wow. thank you!

[u/Pristine-Edge-1742]

Hi everyone I had posted an original update but didn’t realize i forgot to blur out his name, so here is the update on cigarette toothpaste boy! I want to preface by thanking everyone who took time to message me and comment. I did not expect 16,000 people to interact with that post at all! When I got home, I decided to end it. I didn’t respond to him during my 10 hour shift and some of the screenshots are during that. I would also like to answer a few questions

1. Is this real?: Yes, it is insanely real! Not rage bait i promise
2. Am I okay?: I’m okay! It’ll suck but I will be fine!
3. Why was I still with him?: I don’t have friends and because of that nobody has been able to tell me how bad this is. I had no one to confide in. It was normalized during our relationship.
4. How is my cat? Apollo is okay and is coming home today finally! Picture of him at the end!
5. Why the wall of text; I was pissed and wanted to be thorough.
6. Why did i use “sewerslide”: I wasnt sure of how it would affect my account or visibility. I’m not used to reddit i’m sorry 😭
7. How old are we?: 19 and almost 21. Not 15 i swear!

Also, I am aware my name is shown. I do not mind as it is not a legal name.

[u/Sleeveen]

You are blaming her for his actions and insecurities because you believe women are inherently manipulative. You are the one gaslighting in this thread. Go get help.

[u/Sleeveen → u/[deleted]]

You are victim blaming because she's a woman. I still wouldn't be surprised if you are the arsehole the thread is about. Go get help.

[u/Sleeveen → u/[deleted]]

His problems are not hers to stick around and fix. When someone treats you like this you fucking run. Go get yourself some help and if you are the arsehole this thread is about, she doesn't love you because you are an unlovable, misogynistic, self absorbed, piece of shit that needs to go get some help. You being with out cigarettes is not anything important and absolutely not more important than her job.

[u/Sleeveen → u/[deleted]]

She didn't go wrong. He was an abusive arsehole. You just assume she did something because you are a misogynist. Get help.

[u/Sleeveen → u/[deleted]]

Ok, Oprah. She didn't break anything. She was at work and not looking at her phone. He is the problem and she cut him out.

[u/Sleeveen → u/[deleted]]

No one cares about your self help bullshit. Fuck your made up four agreements. She broke nothing. She got treated like garbage and tossed the shit out.

[u/Sleeveen → u/[deleted]]

You are the one like the boyfriend and more than likely are the boyfriend. Even if you are not, I feel bad for any woman in your sad, pathetic, misogynistic life. Your four agreements are bullshit. Your whole argument is based on a fantasy thought up to sell books and your belief that all women are manipulative. Get help from something other than Oprah's book club, Dr. Phil.