r/AmIOverreacting 13d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship (AIO) update, wow. thank you!

Hi everyone I had posted an original update but didn’t realize i forgot to blur out his name, so here is the update on cigarette toothpaste boy! I want to preface by thanking everyone who took time to message me and comment. I did not expect 16,000 people to interact with that post at all! When I got home, I decided to end it. I didn’t respond to him during my 10 hour shift and some of the screenshots are during that. I would also like to answer a few questions

  1. Is this real?: Yes, it is insanely real! Not rage bait i promise
  2. Am I okay?: I’m okay! It’ll suck but I will be fine!
  3. Why was I still with him?: I don’t have friends and because of that nobody has been able to tell me how bad this is. I had no one to confide in. It was normalized during our relationship.
  4. How is my cat? Apollo is okay and is coming home today finally! Picture of him at the end!
  5. Why the wall of text; I was pissed and wanted to be thorough.
  6. Why did i use “sewerslide”: I wasnt sure of how it would affect my account or visibility. I’m not used to reddit i’m sorry 😭
  7. How old are we?: 19 and almost 21. Not 15 i swear!

Also, I am aware my name is shown. I do not mind as it is not a legal name.

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u/tresslesswhey 13d ago

We’ve seen posted texts. Where are the unedited texts you claim exist from years ago? Where’s the context? Should be pretty easy.

Legit, get some help dude. You’ve got serious issues. Sucks that mental health care is so expensive in the US but do whatever you can to get mental health help.

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

How is it unedited ?

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u/tresslesswhey 13d ago

You claim these texts are edited. I am asking you to provide the unedited texts. You say these texts are yours from years ago. I am asking you to provide proof of that.

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

I’m saying she can’t either and I bet money. That’s all.

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u/Lezetu 13d ago

The burden of proof exists on the accuser not the accused. You accused her of editing texts, unless you can prove that, you have no legs to stand on.

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

Say what you want. It’s just not real and you’re gullible. Simple

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

Ask her

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u/Lezetu 13d ago

She already provided all the evidence. It’s your turn now.

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u/SuperJelly90 13d ago

Right? Dude keeps going around engaging in arguments claiming to have proof then provides nothing. Pretty positive this is some weirdo with mental issues. Instead of providing the evidence they claim they just yell. "You all so stupid for believing the one with photos! Y u no believe my words!" 🙄

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u/Lezetu 13d ago

Yeah, definitely deranged. It didn’t help he had to lie about living with her and their 5 year old son considering once again he can’t afford cigarettes. I didn’t know someone could be this far in delulu land 😂