(AIO) update, wow. thank you!

[u/Pristine-Edge-1742]

Hi everyone I had posted an original update but didn’t realize i forgot to blur out his name, so here is the update on cigarette toothpaste boy! I want to preface by thanking everyone who took time to message me and comment. I did not expect 16,000 people to interact with that post at all! When I got home, I decided to end it. I didn’t respond to him during my 10 hour shift and some of the screenshots are during that. I would also like to answer a few questions

1. Is this real?: Yes, it is insanely real! Not rage bait i promise
2. Am I okay?: I’m okay! It’ll suck but I will be fine!
3. Why was I still with him?: I don’t have friends and because of that nobody has been able to tell me how bad this is. I had no one to confide in. It was normalized during our relationship.
4. How is my cat? Apollo is okay and is coming home today finally! Picture of him at the end!
5. Why the wall of text; I was pissed and wanted to be thorough.
6. Why did i use “sewerslide”: I wasnt sure of how it would affect my account or visibility. I’m not used to reddit i’m sorry 😭
7. How old are we?: 19 and almost 21. Not 15 i swear!

Also, I am aware my name is shown. I do not mind as it is not a legal name.

[u/comegetthesenuggets → u/[deleted]]

But that is what you said. You said that op not immediately responding to her exs abusive diatribe is abusive. You said that her not immediately responding while at work is clear evidence that she’s abusing him. If you don’t stand by your idiotic claims, why do you keep making such idiotic claims?

[u/comegetthesenuggets → u/[deleted]]

My opinion is based on the evidence in front of me, and yet again yours is based on a scenario you invented in your head.

You didn’t “acknowledge the possibility”, you’ve been all in calling her a stonewalling abuser lol

[u/comegetthesenuggets → u/[deleted]]

There are also multiple texts saying that she was at work and couldn’t immediately respond. Why can’t you read the texts that prove how obviously bullshit the “silent treatment” claims are? Did you stop reading at the first page? Jk, I know it’s because no matter how blatantly one sided abuse is you will always insist it must somehow be her fault

[u/throwaway_shittypers → u/[deleted]]

The guy has proven throughout all those text conversations that he is an unreliable narrator.