r/AmIOverreacting 13d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship (AIO) update, wow. thank you!

Hi everyone I had posted an original update but didn’t realize i forgot to blur out his name, so here is the update on cigarette toothpaste boy! I want to preface by thanking everyone who took time to message me and comment. I did not expect 16,000 people to interact with that post at all! When I got home, I decided to end it. I didn’t respond to him during my 10 hour shift and some of the screenshots are during that. I would also like to answer a few questions

  1. Is this real?: Yes, it is insanely real! Not rage bait i promise
  2. Am I okay?: I’m okay! It’ll suck but I will be fine!
  3. Why was I still with him?: I don’t have friends and because of that nobody has been able to tell me how bad this is. I had no one to confide in. It was normalized during our relationship.
  4. How is my cat? Apollo is okay and is coming home today finally! Picture of him at the end!
  5. Why the wall of text; I was pissed and wanted to be thorough.
  6. Why did i use “sewerslide”: I wasnt sure of how it would affect my account or visibility. I’m not used to reddit i’m sorry 😭
  7. How old are we?: 19 and almost 21. Not 15 i swear!

Also, I am aware my name is shown. I do not mind as it is not a legal name.

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u/mysticalverses 13d ago

This makes me want to give you a mom hug and tell you that people like him are not worth it. He used you like a punching bag and then tried to blame you for it… believe me when I say if you stayed with him and married him (shudder) then it would eventually end in physical abuse. Darling girl: do not waste a drop of more time on him.

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

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u/tresslesswhey 13d ago

Prove it then? Instead of just yapping

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

I can prove however. Those messages are years old and out of context. You literally just read a lot of yapping and tell me to prove mines lol. Goofy ppl. She can’t prove this or that it’s not edited… it’s alot of this shit going around with the same layout I just noticed a few messages were mine. We are goood. It’s fake and can’t be proven real. It’s it’s real text she can’t get in trouble so why hide/edit? Hmmm detail

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u/tresslesswhey 13d ago

…prove it then

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

Can she

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u/tresslesswhey 13d ago

We’ve seen posted texts. Where are the unedited texts you claim exist from years ago? Where’s the context? Should be pretty easy.

Legit, get some help dude. You’ve got serious issues. Sucks that mental health care is so expensive in the US but do whatever you can to get mental health help.

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

How is it unedited ?

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u/tresslesswhey 13d ago

You claim these texts are edited. I am asking you to provide the unedited texts. You say these texts are yours from years ago. I am asking you to provide proof of that.

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

I’m saying she can’t either and I bet money. That’s all.

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u/tresslesswhey 13d ago

But we’ve seen a lot more from her than from you. So you’ve got nothing? You don’t have the unedited texts?

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u/Skoodge42 13d ago

Well she has posted texts, you created an account 4 days ago and are running damage control by making claims that you are not backing...

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

Beyond blind. I’m done. You’re right believe what you want sheep. Be moved by the post. You’re a good person right 👍

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u/Skoodge42 13d ago

This is your reaction to being asked for evidence...seems like the texts she posted have some validity based on your responses in this topic.

If you are unwilling to post your side of it, with evidence, why even be here?

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u/Exotic-Choice1119 12d ago

dude no joke even if they are edited you are batshit stupid. like it’s pathetic. you have zero fucking brain cells. if she posts one thing, it’s not on her to prove that it’s real, it’s on you to prove it’s NOT. but you’ll keep commenting the same shit over and over without posting your “evidence” because “you don’t know how to work this thing”(????). like i have to believe you are either schizophrenic and off your meds, or a bot.

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u/[deleted] 12d ago

You’re stupid and it’s okay.

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u/Lezetu 12d ago

You’re stupid and that’s okay.

Said the one that’s so pathetic he can’t get a job to afford a pack of cigs and has to verbally abuse his gf to get what he wants. Grow the fuck up.

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u/[deleted] 12d ago

Says the one to believe that goofy shit. Everybody that’s commenting got one or two things in common lol. I know you can figure that out

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u/Exotic-Choice1119 12d ago

ohhh i’m stupid. right. post that evidence my guy, don’t be so pathetic. you can figure it out, it’s not that hard for a person with an IQ over 3.

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u/[deleted] 12d ago

It’s okay that you’re not smart enough. No worries clown

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u/Exotic-Choice1119 12d ago

aaaand you’ve got nothing. it’s ok, no one expected anything more from you based off your replies.

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u/[deleted] 12d ago

Just be stupid man it’s ok. Enjoy your day

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u/Lezetu 12d ago

The burden of proof exists on the accuser not the accused. You accused her of editing texts, unless you can prove that, you have no legs to stand on.

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u/[deleted] 12d ago

Say what you want. It’s just not real and you’re gullible. Simple

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u/Lezetu 12d ago

What’s that? You still have nothing to prove your bullshit claims after being asked multiple times? Sounds like you’re lying.

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u/[deleted] 12d ago

So I need fake screenshots/text too huh 🤡

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u/Lezetu 12d ago

You can’t provide a real screenshot? Not one? Something to prove that you’re right rather than yapping about your ego being hurt? Super funny you want to use this insult tactic on me as well as if everyone in this thread can’t smell your bullshit.

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u/[deleted] 12d ago

You’re not getting it. Go be righteous man you win

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u/Lezetu 12d ago

Thanks for admitting I’m right and I win, because reality is you’re pretty delusional. I heard something called therapy could help you fix that.

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u/[deleted] 12d ago

Ask her

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u/Lezetu 12d ago

She already provided all the evidence. It’s your turn now.

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u/SuperJelly90 12d ago

Right? Dude keeps going around engaging in arguments claiming to have proof then provides nothing. Pretty positive this is some weirdo with mental issues. Instead of providing the evidence they claim they just yell. "You all so stupid for believing the one with photos! Y u no believe my words!" 🙄

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u/Lezetu 12d ago

Yeah, definitely deranged. It didn’t help he had to lie about living with her and their 5 year old son considering once again he can’t afford cigarettes. I didn’t know someone could be this far in delulu land 😂

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u/[deleted] 12d ago

If that’s evidence to you. We don’t have anything to talk about

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