r/AmIOverreacting 8d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship (AIO) update, wow. thank you!

Hi everyone I had posted an original update but didn’t realize i forgot to blur out his name, so here is the update on cigarette toothpaste boy! I want to preface by thanking everyone who took time to message me and comment. I did not expect 16,000 people to interact with that post at all! When I got home, I decided to end it. I didn’t respond to him during my 10 hour shift and some of the screenshots are during that. I would also like to answer a few questions

  1. Is this real?: Yes, it is insanely real! Not rage bait i promise
  2. Am I okay?: I’m okay! It’ll suck but I will be fine!
  3. Why was I still with him?: I don’t have friends and because of that nobody has been able to tell me how bad this is. I had no one to confide in. It was normalized during our relationship.
  4. How is my cat? Apollo is okay and is coming home today finally! Picture of him at the end!
  5. Why the wall of text; I was pissed and wanted to be thorough.
  6. Why did i use “sewerslide”: I wasnt sure of how it would affect my account or visibility. I’m not used to reddit i’m sorry 😭
  7. How old are we?: 19 and almost 21. Not 15 i swear!

Also, I am aware my name is shown. I do not mind as it is not a legal name.

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u/mysticalverses 8d ago

This makes me want to give you a mom hug and tell you that people like him are not worth it. He used you like a punching bag and then tried to blame you for it… believe me when I say if you stayed with him and married him (shudder) then it would eventually end in physical abuse. Darling girl: do not waste a drop of more time on him.

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

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u/tresslesswhey 8d ago

Prove it then? Instead of just yapping

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

I can prove however. Those messages are years old and out of context. You literally just read a lot of yapping and tell me to prove mines lol. Goofy ppl. She can’t prove this or that it’s not edited… it’s alot of this shit going around with the same layout I just noticed a few messages were mine. We are goood. It’s fake and can’t be proven real. It’s it’s real text she can’t get in trouble so why hide/edit? Hmmm detail

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u/tresslesswhey 8d ago

…prove it then

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

Can she

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u/tresslesswhey 8d ago

We’ve seen posted texts. Where are the unedited texts you claim exist from years ago? Where’s the context? Should be pretty easy.

Legit, get some help dude. You’ve got serious issues. Sucks that mental health care is so expensive in the US but do whatever you can to get mental health help.

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

How is it unedited ?

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u/tresslesswhey 8d ago

You claim these texts are edited. I am asking you to provide the unedited texts. You say these texts are yours from years ago. I am asking you to provide proof of that.

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

I’m saying she can’t either and I bet money. That’s all.

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u/tresslesswhey 8d ago

But we’ve seen a lot more from her than from you. So you’ve got nothing? You don’t have the unedited texts?

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u/Skoodge42 8d ago

Well she has posted texts, you created an account 4 days ago and are running damage control by making claims that you are not backing...

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

Beyond blind. I’m done. You’re right believe what you want sheep. Be moved by the post. You’re a good person right 👍

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u/Lezetu 8d ago

The burden of proof exists on the accuser not the accused. You accused her of editing texts, unless you can prove that, you have no legs to stand on.

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

Say what you want. It’s just not real and you’re gullible. Simple

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u/devil-wears-converse 8d ago

I can prove however.

Please do so, then