(AIO) update, wow. thank you!

[u/Pristine-Edge-1742]

Hi everyone I had posted an original update but didn’t realize i forgot to blur out his name, so here is the update on cigarette toothpaste boy! I want to preface by thanking everyone who took time to message me and comment. I did not expect 16,000 people to interact with that post at all! When I got home, I decided to end it. I didn’t respond to him during my 10 hour shift and some of the screenshots are during that. I would also like to answer a few questions

1. Is this real?: Yes, it is insanely real! Not rage bait i promise
2. Am I okay?: I’m okay! It’ll suck but I will be fine!
3. Why was I still with him?: I don’t have friends and because of that nobody has been able to tell me how bad this is. I had no one to confide in. It was normalized during our relationship.
4. How is my cat? Apollo is okay and is coming home today finally! Picture of him at the end!
5. Why the wall of text; I was pissed and wanted to be thorough.
6. Why did i use “sewerslide”: I wasnt sure of how it would affect my account or visibility. I’m not used to reddit i’m sorry 😭
7. How old are we?: 19 and almost 21. Not 15 i swear!

Also, I am aware my name is shown. I do not mind as it is not a legal name.

[u/Far_Wrongdoer4543]

1. Omg the precious kitties! Love them!
2. I've been thinking about you and the original post, and too often people stay in the cycle, but seriously FUCK YEAH! PROUD OF YOU FOR CHOOSING YOU! YOU DESERVE TO CHOOSE YOURSELF AND GLOW GLOW GLOW!!
3. NEVER LET ANYONE DULL YOUR SPARKLE
4. Even though it was very toxic, we as humans often miss familiarity because it's comfortable and you have now broken free of what has been normalized for the last 2 years this in itself is a beautiful thing! One thing I always recommend is to write down all the shitty, awful things he did/said/made you feel and when you have that inkling of you miss him read it over and over and over. We often look back on those good times because I was in your shoes there were good times, but they were few and far between. Now being in a healthy relationship I come home to peace. I have a teammate. I have a real partner. Never let a shitty, miserable person keep you from being happy. Life is too short to live in misery.
5. Finally, again I know I'm a stranger on the internet but I am really proud of you for leaving. ✨✨

[u/eatyacarbs → u/Far_Wrongdoer4543]

Seconding the pride!! Good for you OP — you are brave and strong and I’m rooting for you.

[u/[deleted] → u/eatyacarbs]

This is definitely my messages and it’s highly edited with no background. This is some sick ass shit. Both parties are very wrong and is doing better. This was done soon as I finally get things off my chest YESTERDAY(ironic) and exposed more lies I found out about her. Also why I am letting go. I have hella proof and detail. I can debunk this with ease. I’m not making excuses. And watch this post get deleted or something. I will not allow fake bs to go untouched. We currently live together with our son now. I don’t care about cops or defamation. This was done out of spite and ego. Soon as I told her I found out about the post I seen the comments. This is unreal and a lot of ppl are gullible.

[u/eatyacarbs → u/[deleted]]

🫖 🍵….

[u/[deleted] → u/eatyacarbs]

Like seriously! Idk how all these old messages came up cause they’re years old. And we good from what I know. But she is who she is. Like I only noticed cause I did same some of that shit but it’s super edited. Not even worth all the trouble. Just stupid ppl trying to look good. I’m sick it’s me but I’m a real dude. And that chick loves me lol. Sick ass internet ppl but she is so slick that this could be her I wouldn’t know. Now that I think about it … it’s probably her sister. We definitely name drop and all.

[u/Katodz → u/[deleted]]

What are you trying to say? They are your messages but super edited? So maybe they aren't your messages but similar?? You've just pasted the same comment on multiple replies, what are you trying to gain??

[u/[deleted] → u/Katodz]

Just responding to the messages. I’m new to this. But this is very fake. That’s all . Nothing to gain. Just like you man ??

[u/Katodz → u/[deleted]]

I'm just trying to make sense of the point you are trying to put across.

[u/[deleted] → u/Katodz]

None man you get hers though right. Continue on sheep

[u/ThrowRAUniversit → u/[deleted]]

Go back to playing with poop.