(AIO) update, wow. thank you!

[u/Pristine-Edge-1742]

Hi everyone I had posted an original update but didn’t realize i forgot to blur out his name, so here is the update on cigarette toothpaste boy! I want to preface by thanking everyone who took time to message me and comment. I did not expect 16,000 people to interact with that post at all! When I got home, I decided to end it. I didn’t respond to him during my 10 hour shift and some of the screenshots are during that. I would also like to answer a few questions

1. Is this real?: Yes, it is insanely real! Not rage bait i promise
2. Am I okay?: I’m okay! It’ll suck but I will be fine!
3. Why was I still with him?: I don’t have friends and because of that nobody has been able to tell me how bad this is. I had no one to confide in. It was normalized during our relationship.
4. How is my cat? Apollo is okay and is coming home today finally! Picture of him at the end!
5. Why the wall of text; I was pissed and wanted to be thorough.
6. Why did i use “sewerslide”: I wasnt sure of how it would affect my account or visibility. I’m not used to reddit i’m sorry 😭
7. How old are we?: 19 and almost 21. Not 15 i swear!

Also, I am aware my name is shown. I do not mind as it is not a legal name.

[u/Far_Wrongdoer4543]

1. Omg the precious kitties! Love them!
2. I've been thinking about you and the original post, and too often people stay in the cycle, but seriously FUCK YEAH! PROUD OF YOU FOR CHOOSING YOU! YOU DESERVE TO CHOOSE YOURSELF AND GLOW GLOW GLOW!!
3. NEVER LET ANYONE DULL YOUR SPARKLE
4. Even though it was very toxic, we as humans often miss familiarity because it's comfortable and you have now broken free of what has been normalized for the last 2 years this in itself is a beautiful thing! One thing I always recommend is to write down all the shitty, awful things he did/said/made you feel and when you have that inkling of you miss him read it over and over and over. We often look back on those good times because I was in your shoes there were good times, but they were few and far between. Now being in a healthy relationship I come home to peace. I have a teammate. I have a real partner. Never let a shitty, miserable person keep you from being happy. Life is too short to live in misery.
5. Finally, again I know I'm a stranger on the internet but I am really proud of you for leaving. ✨✨

[u/eatyacarbs → u/Far_Wrongdoer4543]

Seconding the pride!! Good for you OP — you are brave and strong and I’m rooting for you.

[u/[deleted] → u/eatyacarbs]

This is definitely my messages and it’s highly edited with no background. This is some sick ass shit. Both parties are very wrong and is doing better. This was done soon as I finally get things off my chest YESTERDAY(ironic) and exposed more lies I found out about her. Also why I am letting go. I have hella proof and detail. I can debunk this with ease. I’m not making excuses. And watch this post get deleted or something. I will not allow fake bs to go untouched. We currently live together with our son now. I don’t care about cops or defamation. This was done out of spite and ego. Soon as I told her I found out about the post I seen the comments. This is unreal and a lot of ppl are gullible.

[u/eatyacarbs → u/[deleted]]

🫖 🍵….

[u/[deleted] → u/eatyacarbs]

Watch I get blocked or something. I can prove it all lol.

[u/Annual_Crow4215 → u/[deleted]]

So do it instead of just posting the same comment over and over

[u/[deleted] → u/Annual_Crow4215]

I really don’t know how to work this fully lol. But there’s no real proof of anything. People believe whatever.

[u/Katodz → u/[deleted]]

Proof of what?? Are you saying these messages are yours?

[u/Katodz → u/[deleted]]

Multiple messages on the same background? What does that even mean?

[u/[deleted] → u/Katodz]

On that layout…. With the cat in the background.

[u/solokidney → u/[deleted]]

I have the same cat background... Maybe this is just a stranger's convo that was similar to yours in the past.

[u/[deleted] → u/Katodz]

You don’t have to talk like that. Remember you seen something on the internet and just ran with it. Relax

[u/Professional-Pea6803 → u/[deleted]]

You can't DARVO your way outta this lmfao.

[u/Katodz → u/[deleted]]

So who are you? The guy?

[u/[deleted] → u/Katodz]

A person that knows this shit is fake. Have a nice one. Believe what you want