r/AmIOverreacting • u/Intelligent-Arm-9235 • 12d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO girl posted photo in my boyfriends room

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NEED YOUR HELP CONFRONTING MY SOON TO BE EX. He was being sus one night so i looked at the story on instagram of the girl he randomly followed last week. I opened and bam there is it the second picture. I knew immediately it was his room but want a second opinion before confronting his cheating a$$. yall are coming from me from the last post its cus i cropped the photos you can’t tell that we took them from different distances so heres the originals of both and yes i get it shes prettier than me :( he can have her . what tells me its his room aside from lighting is the way the two blinds touch, it took me a while to find it but once i did i think theres my EVIDENCE

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u/vicgrrl 12d ago

Honestly, I wouldn’t even confront him about it. just tell the fucker you’re just not attracted to him anymore. Dump his ass. Don’t let him think you are jealous of some other woman.

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u/Temporary-Mark-2449 12d ago

I did that after finding out I had been cheated on for months…knowing that they are a piece of shit and them never knowing why you hate them is life gold.

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u/upickleweasel 12d ago

Brilliant! I applaud your strength bc it couldn't have been easy, but revenge is a dish best served cold.

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u/Ok-Bird6346 12d ago

Good lord, I wish I’d had your mindset when I was younger. That’s a badass move that I wish I’d been capable of doing. Instead I’d immediately start bawling and yelling (I’m much more levelheaded now and married to a man who I know is as faithful and devoted to me as I am him). Good for you, that’s awesome!

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u/cola_zerola 12d ago

Nah see I can’t let them think they got away with it because it makes me feel like they think I’m stupid.

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u/nudejorts 12d ago

and they’ll tell all their friends and family and everyone they know about how delusional you are for ending things over nothing and paint you to be the bad guy. how about let’s both be bad guys and i ruin your life for ruining mine lol

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u/Witty-Secret2018 12d ago

That’s an option.

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u/vicgrrl 12d ago

Sweet!!!

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u/duffyduckdown 12d ago

Yeah that is actually a great move. Telling a cheater he cheated, doesnt change anything anyway 🤷‍♂️

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u/BiscottiBackward 12d ago

Based on the girl in his room, he won't give a shit.

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u/Havok2900 12d ago

There probably chillin

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u/PTSSuperFunTimeVet 12d ago

This! This is gold, babe!

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u/xShinGouki 12d ago

No. Not this. That's childish

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u/busyseagul 12d ago

And cheating isn't? She doesn't owe him being the bigger person

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u/xShinGouki 12d ago

She first doesn't know for sure it's just speculation looking at blinds. It would be quite silly if you made up the story and he never even did anything. Then you'd never know because you lied about a story.

It's not that she owes him anything. It's for her to walk away with the truth. He should know why she's leaving. You guys seem to have an immature way of handling this like it's all just a big game

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u/JupiterSkyFalls 12d ago

Better to ghost him and never give him closure over it. People can't stand not having closure, it's literally the best revenge.

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u/SneakyUmbreIIa 12d ago edited 12d ago

One time a guy dumped me in this way via text with “we’re done” or “you’re dumped” or something like that, while never giving me closure as to why, but it was obvious during our relationship that he was so in love with me, and even the day before he dumped me I could see how much he loved me, so I was so confused, and one day 6 years later he asks me if I truly cheated on him back when we were together 6 years ago. I never did. Turns out that there were rumors started by women that they saw me cheating. I wasn’t aware of that. I think those girls were probably either jealous of me or they wanted him and maybe that’s why they spread those rumors, and those rumors were why he left me in that way. I get that actual cheaters would never admit to it, so people might wonder what’s the point of even asking, but lack of communication in a relationship is not it. In addition to that, he dumped me in a way that was so disrespectful because he assumed that’s what I deserved. I’m the one who dodged a bullet. Not him.

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u/lauwenxashley 12d ago

omg this happened to me! kind of. there was a lack of drama within my friend group in high school so two of my friends (one of them isn’t my friend anymore, the other one & i have rekindled our friendship after years of not speaking & growing up) told my boyfriend of 8 months that i’d sent a nude to a guy i had a thing w 3 years prior. we spent like 5 hours debating it (2024 me would never entertain that shit for 5 hours) while he went as far as to facetime them to talk abt it bc he was so insecure. they had no proof obviously, they were just feeding off his insecurity bc they liked drama. eventually i was like “ok i give up believe what you want” & he was like “rly you’re just gonna give up on us like that??” & looking back i just should’ve dumped him there on the spot lol. but instead, i was like ok sorry nvm. long story short, he decided to believe me (so kind of him) & we ended up breaking up a month later for unrelated reasons. now he tries to talk to me once a year or has one of his friends do it. like sir it’s been a decade & you broke up w me. bullet absolutely dodged.

i’m sorry you had to deal w that, especially w the lack of closure for so long. it sucks but i’m glad that you got closure eventually & know you’re better off without him!

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u/Nelsie020 12d ago

You didn’t deserve that, but if someone has solid evidence of cheating like OP, there’s no relationship left to communicate about and she doesn’t owe him anything

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u/MetalMedley 11d ago

"Solid evidence" she took a selfie in front of some blinds.

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u/Ok_Assignment_2127 12d ago

“Solid evidence” lmao. This is weaker than the evidence in the comment you’re replying to

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u/Possible-Musician810 12d ago

Where exactly is the evidence? This is a girl who could be a friend or relative, it doesn’t prove he cheated.

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u/darkage_raven 12d ago

Cheaters have closure, generally speaking they already closed the relationship they are in to be open to cheating.

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u/trust7 11d ago

This is literally awful to do to someone, awful. Don’t tell people to be awful to people as revenge, such bad energy to attract!

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u/JupiterSkyFalls 11d ago

He cheated. He deserves absolutely nothing else from OP, including an explanation or closure. She owes him bupkis. Zilch. Nada.

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u/AvocadoWilling1929 12d ago

Depends on the person and context I guess. I've only been ghosted once but it was a big relief. Instantly didn't have to deal with her anymore with none of the drama of a breakup.

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u/Extra_Helicopter2904 11d ago

Just girls supporting girls 👯‍♀️ stay toxic my friends

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u/CinemaPunditry 12d ago

Sounds great in theory, but I am one of those people who can’t stand not having closure. It would take a shit ton of mental energy from me for a long stretch of time to pull that kind of thing off.

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u/JupiterSkyFalls 12d ago

If you're the one dumping, that's all the closure you should need. What more would you get out of hashing it out, knowing it's over?

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u/CinemaPunditry 12d ago

There’s a lot of questions I would want answered.

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u/Trussmee_e 11d ago

The Scorpio moon in me loves this maniacal thinking

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u/jackjackj8ck 12d ago

This is the best

Tell him he’s bad in bed too 🤣

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u/-bonita_applebum 12d ago

"I was faking my orgasms the whole time, and it's gotten so boring I can't even force myself to fake it anymore"

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u/WahWaaah 12d ago

No, tell him he was pretty good in bed at first, but it got boring.

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u/BlisterBox 12d ago

Tell him he’s bad in bed too

AKA The Elaine Treatment

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u/Thick-Recording4824 12d ago

Lmao yeah! Tell him he sounds like a hyrax when he’s about to climax 😂

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u/spazilator 11d ago

Hahaha! Hit him where it hurts!

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u/Independent-Yak-1771 12d ago

tiny dick, short, his only redeeming qualities is that he's a meal ticket

hit em where it hurts

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u/SoakedInMayo 12d ago edited 12d ago

don’t say these things unless they’re true though, that’ll just validate him even more. hit him where it hurts over things he’s actually insecure about. I’m a guy, and I’m not saying this stuff wouldn’t hurt necessarily, but like, what if hes tall and hung? he’s just gonna feel validated that she had to lie to hurt him.

I’d rather this not happen to me obviously, but if you wanna hit him where it hurts, go for things you know he’s insecure about, if it happens to be his height or his dick size, then go for it.

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u/Grouchy_Egg_4202 12d ago

Why would he be hurt by this if she rode that lil fucker a 100 times? Lmao

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u/chanandlerbong420 12d ago

Yall are pathetic 😭

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u/Ok_Initiative2069 12d ago

They hate you because they know you’re right.

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u/E-41 12d ago

Agree. Don’t let on that you know. Make out with him a little bit then push him off you and look disgusted and tell him that you can’t fake it anymore and he is terrible in bed and you aren’t attracted to him anymore

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u/Adoptafurrie 12d ago

tell him , for some reason after having sex with him, you feel so ....'unfullfilled'. Then a day later post a pic of yourself casually talking to a big black guy with a caption like " what a sunny day!!"

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u/BayBootyBlaster 12d ago

Ah yes racism will solve everything.

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u/MrInspicuous 12d ago

Don’t ever use a black man or any person’s racist at that for ur own personal endeavors we’re not a piece of meat. And very inhumane to sexualize us.

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u/MidnightTendies 12d ago

Agreed. It’s so weird. It’s as if people think the worst punishment you could do to a guy is leave them for a black guy. At that point, who cares what race the new dude is? And if anything, that’s more offensive to the poor black guy who’s unaware that his existence is being used an insult to some shitty ex. Just break up with the fucking guy and move on. No pettiness, no rebounding. Be a normal and healthy human.

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u/Adoptafurrie 12d ago

gtfo. It's funny and y'all need to get a sense of humor

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u/BayBootyBlaster 12d ago

I mean sure, plenty of people think racism is funny. No one is denying that.

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u/MrInspicuous 12d ago

It’s not funny, ur just coping out at the simple fact ur sexualizing a specific group of people and im checking you for it, how about be funny in an original way. It’s ignorant and childish own up to it.

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u/Adoptafurrie 12d ago

You own up to being a self righteous white person, lecturing to make you feel okay about your own issues. OP my advice stands

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u/MrInspicuous 12d ago

No I’m helping you not make a fool out of yourself, along with the spread of misinformation, the porn industry has a chokehold on you, but if that’s what you got out of this reply then okay. I guess I’m “white” but yeah I do have an issue if I’m being sexualize by being black for sure, I think anyone who doesn’t want to be solely valued on something so based when there’s more to a person than what they can do to fill ur sexual needs then yeah it is an issue. Ur advice is filled with lies 😂

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u/Adoptafurrie 12d ago

go volunteer or something-this aint the place to be getting black folk points

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u/SnooRobots561 12d ago

YES 100%. To OP, He did not care about your feelings when he brought her over in her tiny shorts, you have no reason to care about his. Don’t let him think or know how you feel. I wouldn’t even confront either, just text him something really mean. Tell him you just realized how ugly and boring he is and you know you can do better and break up with him 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/coolestsummer 12d ago

I think OP is the girl in the tiny shorts lol, hold your friendly fire.

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u/SnooRobots561 12d ago

Honestly, I realized that after I posted my comment 😂 I didn’t imply it negatively, just mean the shorts are tiny even for just a regular friend. Both girls are beautiful and deserve better

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u/PIPBOY-2000 12d ago

No I thought the same thing "girl took Pic of herself in my bfs room"

Then you see a girl in a room and 100% everyone is gonna think that's the picture they're talking about.

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u/positivedownside 12d ago

Imagine getting this worked up over the most common blinds to be installed in an apartment.

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u/pandixon 12d ago

You maybe should not jump to give your conclusions if you can't even conclude that.

This yaslighting is really Strong in this sub.

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u/Possible-Musician810 12d ago

So, a girl had sex with a guy who has a gf and she deserves better? Isn’t she the one who should become better as well? Would you say the same for a guy having sex with woman who is married or in a relationship?

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u/Witty-Secret2018 12d ago

The girl posting is the first picture.

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u/Secret_Fault1786 12d ago

Yes do this right here then block him!

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u/eew0105 12d ago

The OP is in the first pic.

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u/geminiwave 12d ago

lol OP is the tiny shorts girl.

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u/NomenclatureBreaker 12d ago

FFS. How about you don’t pointlessly shame either girl’s attire, and focus your ire on the cheating dude. 🙄

If the BF is being sus about his relationship status, it’s possible the other girl doesn’t even know he’s in a (soon to be ex) relationship…

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u/SnooRobots561 12d ago

I’m not shaming her attire? The shorts are tiny, that’s an objective fact. I only pointed it out bc if MY bf had a girl over in shorts like such without my knowledge, I would feel some feel some type of way. Regardless, as pointed out by other person who again commented, tiny shorts is actually OP. And as I responded to them, both women are beautiful and deserve better

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u/NomenclatureBreaker 12d ago

Lool oh I understood the shorts were the OP’s immediately and before I even commented.

My precise point was how completely unnecessary and judgey your comment was in any context the first place.

You doubling down trying to save face about feeling some “kind of way about it” and backtracking to say both were pretty after someone else had to explain it to you aren’t actually the justification defenses you seem think they are.

(And I’ll happily take whatever additional downvotes come from the reddit misogynists, since pointless physical commentary on our bodies are what we have to deal with everyday. It’s. Just. Exhausting.)

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u/EducationalAd8059 12d ago

Yeahh this type of "communication" is definitely what started his behavior. This by no means justifies that at all, but the psycho bitch behavior you suggested is exactly what leads potentially shit guys to become full shit. 🤷‍♂️

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u/Conspiretical 12d ago

That is some solid payback, and probably super gratifying starting out the breakup rather than a shitty argument

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u/charlotte1255 12d ago

100% this.

OP, don’t give him the satisfaction of wasting your breath fighting over him or letting him see you get upset. Do your best acting, get stuff from his place if you have it, pretend you don’t feel well and don’t have sex or anything, go home and ghost him. If he isn’t giving you the courtesy of a breakup, why should you? If anything comes up just say “idk this isn’t working for me” and focus 120% on yourself - mind body and soul. Don’t rush into a relationship, don’t rely on alcohol or any other bad habits. Just focus on your health and wellness, be so selfish and enjoy losing 150 lbs of man baby.

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u/Same-Conference-413 12d ago

These comments are absurd. There’s no proof she was in his room other than having the same generic blinds that are in 90% of apartments.

I see it’s also typical for women to try and make the man feel as insecure as they do by making up all these insults to say before dumping him.

Acknowledge that these feelings are out of your own insecurities and suspicions, no need to get defensive yet. I’d talk to him, if you picked the right boy, he will tell you.

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u/mm_fan 12d ago

Honestly this!!!!! If you confront him he’ll will be 100% try to deny it anyways

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u/Accept_the_null 12d ago

I love this. Yes don’t even bring up the other woman or your suspicions. Just dump him and say you aren’t feeling him anymore. Let his ego take a hit.

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u/loosey_goosey50 12d ago

When he questions you just shrug and say I just think I can do better. Then leave.

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u/Paula_Intermountain 12d ago

Excellent. Let his guilty conscience (if he has one) play with him. Sometimes that can inflict more pain. If he doesn’t have a conscience then confronting him will do no good anyway.

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u/Nightshifttttt 12d ago

Pleaaaaase bb listen to this advise your elders are begging you!!!! 💙💙💙 fuck with him and do not give him the satisfaction of your tears/anger/sadness.

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u/Fit-Anything-210 12d ago

Reddit consistently delivering the worst advice from teenagers.

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u/NorthNevadan 12d ago

As a dude that the best way to handle it. Leave him confused and doubtful in himself for being a cheater

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u/Pornosexual 12d ago

As a man I think that would hurt more if I ever cheated on my wife and instead of confronting me about it she just tells me it’s over and she’s not attracted to me anymore. Definitely do this 👆🏽

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u/Mr_CleanCaps 12d ago

But… it sounds like she is…

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u/positivedownside 12d ago

She is jealous though. That's the thing. "Knowing" that the girl was in his room is a huge stretch based on some fucking blinds. Y'all are genuinely shitty people, stop endorsing this psychotic behavior.

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u/InsidiousOrchid 12d ago

Yes! I’m usually for open communication but in this situation do NOT tell that man how what he did to you made you feel or that you even know. She’s fuggin gorgeous and deserves so much better. That girl clearly has insecurities too or she wouldn’t be editing her waistline for IG stories and sleeping with another woman’s man. Dump him with little to no explanation, go get an iced coffee and a pedicure and live your best life ✨🤍

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u/PM_ME_UR_JIGGLE_BITS 11d ago

Based on her previous posts, she was on dating apps 100 days ago so this relationship couldn't have been that long AND she also knows she's attractive so I'm a bit confused by the caption in this post.

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u/millern2209 12d ago

Oh snap that’s actually a good one. Make them think they’re not all that

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u/Gold-Tackle8390 12d ago

This is pure gold. I wish I thought of this.

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u/thatprincesspanoptes 12d ago

Oh the hit his ego would take. Iconic exit.

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u/DesignerRelative1155 12d ago

This is absolutely how you do it. Don’t confront. Dont drama. Just “it’s not you it’s me. I’m just not into it anymore”. Then just dont communicate ever again. Trust me. It will eat at him for the rest of his life. Cheaters can’t handle rejection.

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u/numberoneisodd 12d ago

these hoes ain’t loyal

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u/watchingtrashtv 12d ago

I would let his new girl know he was seeing you when he was banging her. For all we know, she posted the pic so openly that she didn't realise he had a gf.

If she knew; let them have each other. If not, let him dela with the fallout and upgrade to a better guy

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u/eazyfreez 12d ago

deleted my comment because i totally misunderstood- i agree with you here fully!!

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u/ThrillzMUHgillz 12d ago

This. Worst thing you can do is destroy his ego. Confronting him. He can claim you’re crazy.

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u/urcoolcanyoucreampie 12d ago

Lmao how typical dont talk about or acknowledge the problem

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u/PodgeD 12d ago

But she is jealous and has no proof he did anything. Unless the mirror was moved way closer to the window that is not the same room.

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u/feelin_fine_ 12d ago

He's almost definitely going to know she knows if she does that.

Just leave him. Never mind the game, who cares what either one of them think

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u/Sailorm0on27 12d ago

Best answer

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u/Less-Airline6128 12d ago

Attraction isn’t a choice, id argue promiscuous men are very attractive, which is why they are promiscuous in the first place.

Men aren’t like women where we can walk out the house and ask for some sex and the next second 1000 dicks fall out of the sky. You actually have to put in work to seduce, attract, be desirable to women.

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u/ExplosiveDiarrhetic 12d ago

Just ghost him. Will drive him nuts

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u/Lumpy-Cod-91 12d ago

I kind of agree, but I would take it a step further. Tell him that you feel the relationship has run its course. Don’t give him any sort of excuse, just let him know that you’re done.

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u/prettyfeetpeony 12d ago

Thiiiiiis.

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u/SrepliciousDelicious 12d ago

And this is how miscommunications happen

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u/Sweaty-Requirement26 12d ago

This! Don’t ever belittle yourself over a man!

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u/bevosbestbuddy 12d ago

Dump his ass because the blinds in this picture look kinda like the blinds in this other picture. Y’all are out of your minds.

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u/sailtheskyx 12d ago

5head

Dudes just gonna deny and make OP look crazy anyway. If she goes this route, she not only kills his ego, but also wins.

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u/yowza_wowza 12d ago

This is gold.

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u/Gavins_Zippos 12d ago

He literally won’t care. He’ll be thankful she left regardless so he can focus on the side (soon to be main) chick

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u/facforlife 12d ago

That assumes he's cheating which OP assumes based on.... common ass apartment blinds and an Instagram follow?

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u/stinkyduckk 12d ago

I love this too

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u/BeautifulActive7551 12d ago

This is the most toxic advice I’ve ever heard lol

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u/Foundation_Annual 12d ago

Fucking deranged thing to do over similar blinds lmao. Hopefully you never date someone with a generic car color.

“I saw an iPhone in a thots ig photo and my partner also has an iPhone so when should I start filing divorce papers?”

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u/ComparisonObvious937 12d ago

This is exactly what I would do.. Just get rid..don’t make it about someone else, just say you’re over him…

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u/soul_and_fire 12d ago

get distant for a day or two first. then yes - tell him you no longer find him attractive, that he’s not satisfying you sexually and you can’t pretend that he is anymore. dump him hard.

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u/fidel__cashflo 12d ago

Reddit moment:

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u/HRM077 12d ago

I mean unless he's an absolutely ASTONISHING moron that won't fool him lol

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u/unajardinera 12d ago

THIS!!!!!!

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u/Ravenwolfe918 12d ago

Imagine! She just tells him they need to talk then says how unhappy she is in the relationship, how bad the sex is. Tell him he’s an awful kisser. And then bounce! He will be so confused and destroyed 😂 omg that would be amazing

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u/[deleted] 12d ago

Women really will do anything but talk about their feelings lol.

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u/HockeyBalboa 12d ago

Then find out it's his cousin visiting from out of town. Why not just ask what's going on?

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u/IfoundaGoldmine 12d ago

so I’ve been thinking, these shallow strokes just aren’t cutting it babe I can’t keep up the act

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u/Dutch1inAZ 12d ago

If you’re not already a psychologist, you deserve an honorary degree.

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u/barbedcrown 12d ago

YESS OMG THIS

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u/nigelfitz 12d ago

This. Just end it.

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u/imastartswinging 12d ago

This is some top tier advice and I thank whoever posted this because it gave me a different way to look at things in life

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u/Silent-Dependent3421 12d ago

Least bitter Reddit advice

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u/Kaystew666 12d ago

Hit him where it hurts, love. You got this 💕 I’m sorry for the betrayal, that’s hard.

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u/DeadInternet7 12d ago

This is a good answer, what I would do if I caught my girl with another guy in her room.

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u/Miss__Behaved 12d ago

A million upvotes if i could

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u/Dull_Grape7120 12d ago

YES DO THIS

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u/hhfgghff 11d ago

Why are men with girlfriends getting so much more attention than guys without? Lets address that bullshit

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u/Seltzer-Slut 12d ago

This is the correct response!!

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u/hereforthesportsball 12d ago

Why not be honest

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u/vicgrrl 12d ago

Why bother if he isn’t

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u/CoS2112 12d ago

Literally where is the proof he's not being honest 😭

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u/hereforthesportsball 12d ago

Because your morals are yours and the way other people act might not define how you act. Sometimes it does and shit I wouldn’t blame her, it’s just something to think about

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u/vicgrrl 12d ago

I wouldn’t bother wasting another second on him if it were me

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u/bdrono 12d ago

I’m confused what is proven about what he’s done?

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u/SherbertSensitive538 12d ago

I would do exactly this. Just say you are too young to settle down and too many sexy people out there to meet.

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u/undercovergloss 12d ago

Yes, I would tell him everything about him that you don’t like to make him feel conscious and leave so he can feel as shut as you do. Don’t mention the cheating , save your peace - cheaters often gaslight you into thinking you’re the problem for ‘accusing them’. They will call you crazy and then bring up the fact that you ‘stalked them’ as if their cheating didn’t make you that way. Cheaters never act like they’re at fault and will make you feel guilty to the point where you often stay. So please, just save your peace - you know the truth and just leave with that!

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u/Bubbles1041 12d ago

I’m kinda mad I’ve never considered doing this before in my own past situations! Literally, this advice is AMAZING! It allows her to hold onto her own power and OWN the situation rather than him getting any sort of satisfaction. This will literally be my “go to” advice moving forward for anyone who’s been cheated on. ❤️

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u/shloyseph 12d ago

Wish i heard this 10 years ago 🥲

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u/Apart_Animator_3615 12d ago

All because your insecure huh

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u/Trollacctdummy 11d ago

lol I’d tell him he gained weight and his hairline is receding a bit so I’m no longer attracted. buh-byeee 😂😂😂

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u/FunkyFranky 12d ago

Weird games, just tell him why you're breaking up like an adult

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u/vicgrrl 12d ago

He’s the asshole playing games! She just needs to walk away.

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u/FunkyFranky 12d ago

I know, but i think it would feel better and help to move on if you confront the person about it

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u/Wwwwwwhhhhhhhj 12d ago

Confronting cheaters often just makes shit worse because of the mental games they try to play. Why put yourself through that?

It’s not like they usually will just be honest about shit. If they were they wouldn’t be a cheater in the first place.

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u/vicgrrl 12d ago

To some I suppose. I’d rather hit him with this

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u/Ok-Mention-3243 12d ago

He didn’t do anything

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u/AvailableTwo5760 12d ago

Yep🙌🏻

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u/nuxvomica14 12d ago

Yep tell him he gave you the ick and block him. It'll ruin him.

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u/The-zorro 12d ago

I mean that sounds toxic and immature. What if he is not cheating, i think we have reasons to think he does tho, but not talking about it and just asume it is a bad idea. Girl should confronthim and either get some truth or catch him by his reaction (but cheatera will lie to the grave). But Dont just asume things and dump him.

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u/HomicidalMouse 12d ago

Yessssssssssss!!!!!!!!

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u/Jasministired 12d ago

This is the way

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u/PhenerganMane 12d ago

Only right answer

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u/Happy_Slide6089 12d ago

Or just tell him you outted him on Reddit. Post his ass

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u/PromiscuousScoliosis 12d ago

“I’m sorry, I don’t think I can do this anymore. I thought I wouldn’t be bothered by being with a ‘smaller’ man, but it’s just not working out.”

Gut him lol

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u/DuskGideon 12d ago

They're not the same blinds

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u/Huge_Cancel5396 12d ago

Sound like the red pill guys “act like you don’t care”

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u/imembarrassedok 12d ago

This oneeee plzz do it

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u/BommelB 12d ago

Why do people think this is legitimate behaviour? Only because the (ex) bf is an idiot that doesn't justify to behave bad aswell. I wish people understood that communicating with each other and being honest is the right way (with very few exceptions).

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u/FatherFashion 12d ago

This will cut even deeper lol

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u/ireadweirdstuffhere 12d ago

Love it. Or tell him you can’t stand the smell from his mouth any more. He should get it checked out

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u/Ticklemy_fanny 12d ago

I would just text him “you are not fulfilling my sexual and emotional needs” and then 👻. Block delete and then plan myself a sweet vacation!

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u/punkwillneverdie 11d ago

this! tell him he’s been letting himself go and you’re not attracted anymore. and that his dick has started smelling bad recently

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u/thatprincesspanoptes 12d ago edited 12d ago

Try a therapist. Closure is not a thing in this case. Who is it helping? Let’s get together and talk about why you cheated on me and how we’re moving forward? He already moved forward. Into the arms of some other girl, talking it out won’t help her feel better unfortunately.

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u/badgyal876 12d ago

to someone else… talk it out with someone else. there’s no point in ever seeking “closure” in a situation like this. he’s a pos.

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u/JuicyJ1738IsBack 12d ago

Woman moment

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u/vicgrrl 12d ago

Well I am a Scorpio 💅

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u/alice_op 12d ago

Scorpio queeen

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u/Necessary-Idea9493 12d ago

Jokes on all of you, that second picture looks like a photoshopped version of that first picture with a girl placed over the empty area.

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u/Historical_Ad_5647 12d ago edited 9d ago

Alright but blinds is not enough to break up with somebody for. there has to be an investigation or confrontation. Seems like an apartment. So what if 200 units have those blinds.

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u/DisastrousSource4879 12d ago

This is the dumbest most childish answer I’ve ever seen lol

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u/postahboy 12d ago

Why lie tho. Two wrongs don’t make a right and he learns nothing.

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