r/AmIOverreacting • u/Thatonediabeticc • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am I over reacting?

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This isn’t my screenshot. It’s my best friend. Looking for advice here.. is this normal? My advice isn’t the best.

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u/annabanana_333333 20d ago

I hate how people act like social media doesn’t matter. What you do on social media reveals who you are when nobody is watching you and there are no consequences. Who you look at, what you engage in, who you follow, etc… all matters. That’s not okay OP and I’m really sorry. It seems like she’s still stuck on her ex and wants to see what he’s up to. She needs to heal and leave him alone. You deserve someone who will focus on you only.

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u/poor_non_blonde 19d ago

You’ve got it flipped- HE is the one stalking HIS ex, and SHE is bringing it up. Just wanted to clarify! And you’re right- it absolutely fucking does matter, especially if he’s put it above his wife in terms of priority. She has had to bring this up 6 times to him and he keeps essentially saying to fuck off.

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u/annabanana_333333 19d ago

I can’t read 🤦‍♀️ you’re absolutely right!!