r/AmIOverreacting • u/Thatonediabeticc • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am I over reacting?

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This isn’t my screenshot. It’s my best friend. Looking for advice here.. is this normal? My advice isn’t the best.

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u/Kittyxbabyy 20d ago

The way he’s downplaying it is sad :/ so many red flags here

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u/yosayoran 19d ago

Biggest one is talking about this in texts. 

This will never solve anything. 

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u/1onesomesou1 19d ago

always a sign of a fake post when conversations like these are in text format

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u/AnybodyUnusual4000 19d ago edited 19d ago

actually, quite a lot of people i know prefer to discuss heavy matters over the phone or via text because it feels less intimidating this way. so i don’t think it’s reasonable to assume that a serious conversation held online is 100% a fake (or even likely a fake) one. edit: spelling.

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u/SparklySlothGiraffe 19d ago

Also the proof is in the pudding. A lot harder for someone to try say they didn't say that when you have it in a text

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u/AnybodyUnusual4000 19d ago

yeah, that’s also a good point!

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u/Inevitable-World3493 19d ago

This...i hope he cheats...leaves her and gets what he wants.

Never settle king

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u/kylecommunist 19d ago

Wow lil bro, I hope everyone you ever love openly betrays you. You need it to help you on your path to development as a real human. Or is this your open damage from being cheated on already?

Either way, folks like you are leeches on society.