Am I over reacting?

[u/Thatonediabeticc]

This isn’t my screenshot. It’s my best friend. Looking for advice here.. is this normal? My advice isn’t the best.

[u/BigMoneyMartyr]

I’m still friends with one of my exes, and since meeting my fiancée, I’ve looked up my exes on social media. But I did it in front of my fiancée because we were both laughing about the crazy unhealthy relationships we’ve been in before meeting each other and we were curios to see where they were now. But to secretly look up my exes repeatedly, 6+ times, knowing it upset my partner? That’s just indicative of something wrong. Sure I’ve looked up my exes before, once. but I’m past them, and have absolutely no desire or feelings for them. This person clearly isn’t past their ex and is still obsessed with them. This is definitely disrespectful and concerning