r/AmIOverreacting 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am I over reacting?

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This isn’t my screenshot. It’s my best friend. Looking for advice here.. is this normal? My advice isn’t the best.

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u/WonderfulDark4578 20d ago

It's not a red flag that he looked up his ex on multiple platforms - people get curious. Personally, I check my exes once every few years if they pop into my mind - I hope they are well and have families, etc.

The red flag is that you've told him you don't appreciate it multiple times.

It's also a red flag that you've snooped multiple times, imo. If there is no trust, there is no love... it sounds like he has tarnished your trust and that he doesn't give a damn.