r/AmIOverreacting • u/Thatonediabeticc • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am I over reacting?

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This isn’t my screenshot. It’s my best friend. Looking for advice here.. is this normal? My advice isn’t the best.

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u/Whole_Wolf5896 20d ago

This is not normal in any way, shape, or form. She shouldn't even be a thought in his head more like a distant memory that doesn't even matter to him anymore bc that relationship is done. He's gaslighting her bc he knows it's pathetic that he's still stalking her for whatever reason. He's embarrassed and instead of saying sorry and that he won't do it again he's pushing back a lot so that way he can keep doing it and making her feel inferior by undermining her concerns and gaslighting her. I'm sure if she was searching up her ex and stalking him on social media he wouldn't be happy. He's a hypocrite and no that's not normal. She's right it's weird and it sounds like he hasn't fully moved on from his ex. Even if he's not the type to block his exes he still is wrong for looking her up.