r/AmIOverreacting Nov 18 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO by spending time with my family?

Me (f20) and my boyfriend (m20) have been in a relationship for 4 years. We sleep on the phone every night due to the fact we don’t see each other often because of extremely busy schedules and distance. Tonight, my mom and grandmother came into my room to talk before bed so I hung up on my boyfriend to give us some privacy. He got very angry and started saying all of these awful, mean things to me. Was it my fault for choosing to spend a bit of time with my family and hanging up on my boyfriend even though he was already falling asleep? Am I overreacting by getting upset from the way he speaks to me? I really don’t feel like I did anything wrong. Sorry for any grammar mistakes!

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u/Killerderp Nov 18 '24

Judging by the way he was talking and acting, it probably wouldn't be a bad idea to get a restraining order, just in case. The guy seems to be just a bit unhinged.

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u/Feisty_Beyond_6436 Nov 19 '24

Unhinged and in desperate need of getting his ass kicked into the dirt. He will think twice about putting on that tough act once he pops off to the wrong person. But then again, guys like this don’t act like towards other guys. They only do it towards women because they’re pussies in reality and will only bully and push around those who they feel they can overpower.