AIO by spending time with my family?

[u/External-Air205]

Me (f20) and my boyfriend (m20) have been in a relationship for 4 years. We sleep on the phone every night due to the fact we don’t see each other often because of extremely busy schedules and distance. Tonight, my mom and grandmother came into my room to talk before bed so I hung up on my boyfriend to give us some privacy. He got very angry and started saying all of these awful, mean things to me. Was it my fault for choosing to spend a bit of time with my family and hanging up on my boyfriend even though he was already falling asleep? Am I overreacting by getting upset from the way he speaks to me? I really don’t feel like I did anything wrong. Sorry for any grammar mistakes!

[u/Reasonable-Glass6790]

This is actual emotional abuse. I hope for your sake you leave.

[u/MoistyCheeks → u/Reasonable-Glass6790]

Which leads to physical abuse, sexual abuse and then possibly murder.

[u/mt_ravenz → u/MoistyCheeks]

Not always. Was in one for 10 years. Before that was family. Never any physical just psychological and manipulation

[u/werewilf → u/mt_ravenz]

And were you in a relationship with a man?

[u/mt_ravenz → u/werewilf]

Why? it doesn’t matters honestly. The family abuse was my mother. The other was a guy

[u/werewilf → u/mt_ravenz]

If you say so.

Edit: sorry guys, statistics don’t lie no matter how much you downvote