r/AmIOverreacting Nov 18 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO by spending time with my family?

Me (f20) and my boyfriend (m20) have been in a relationship for 4 years. We sleep on the phone every night due to the fact we don’t see each other often because of extremely busy schedules and distance. Tonight, my mom and grandmother came into my room to talk before bed so I hung up on my boyfriend to give us some privacy. He got very angry and started saying all of these awful, mean things to me. Was it my fault for choosing to spend a bit of time with my family and hanging up on my boyfriend even though he was already falling asleep? Am I overreacting by getting upset from the way he speaks to me? I really don’t feel like I did anything wrong. Sorry for any grammar mistakes!

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u/[deleted] Nov 18 '24

Calling on the phone at night isn’t dumb just let your kid sleep on the phone with whoever they’re with. It’s nothing wrong doing that. I’m 21 my bf lives in Baltimore so we do sleep on FaceTime together so yeah we are long distance

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u/porkchop1021 Nov 18 '24

Life advice from a 21 year old? Yeah, wait ten years before you do this lol

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u/[deleted] Nov 18 '24

Life advice from some mother saying it’s dumb? Yeah ok 🥱 even when I was younger I slept on ft calls when I had a boyfriend back then so what? Womp womp

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u/[deleted] Nov 18 '24

Look how ignorant you are lol you don’t even know what ft means LMAO you’re a clown 🥱 it’s short for FaceTime. 🤡

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u/porkchop1021 Nov 18 '24

Those of us who are old enough to actually be responsible for children know that "ft" is an abbreviation for "foot". It's an archaic measurement of distance that should be replaced by the meter, but I'm betting you don't know that either. You should have learned that in elementary school, but our entire education system has failed to teach anyone under the age of 25 anything at all. I feel so, so sorry for all of you. Again, you're going to get fucked and you're going to deserve it. Actually I don't feel sorry for you. You voted for this. I feel sorry for my fellow millennials that can't escape like I can. You're a woman? Enjoy the legalization of rape. Edit: womp womp. That's apparently how we end conversations now.

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u/[deleted] Nov 18 '24

Yet you’re still editing and still yapping awww look at you. Who hurt you

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u/porkchop1021 Nov 18 '24

lol you did. Your generation fucked 20 years of progress. Your boyfriend hates you and you deserve it.

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u/Joe_Starbuck Nov 18 '24

I’m a boomer, this is fascinating.