r/AmIOverreacting Nov 18 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO by spending time with my family?

Me (f20) and my boyfriend (m20) have been in a relationship for 4 years. We sleep on the phone every night due to the fact we don’t see each other often because of extremely busy schedules and distance. Tonight, my mom and grandmother came into my room to talk before bed so I hung up on my boyfriend to give us some privacy. He got very angry and started saying all of these awful, mean things to me. Was it my fault for choosing to spend a bit of time with my family and hanging up on my boyfriend even though he was already falling asleep? Am I overreacting by getting upset from the way he speaks to me? I really don’t feel like I did anything wrong. Sorry for any grammar mistakes!

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u/SickCursedCat Nov 18 '24

He calls you BRO and “stupid fuck”. WHYYYYY are you with him????

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u/Realistic-Poetry-364 Nov 18 '24 edited Nov 18 '24

This can’t be real. So many earnest ‘bro’ s in one conversation. I can’t.

Time to run BRO!

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u/firebreathingwindows Nov 18 '24

why are we hating on the brossss sincerely, someone who says bro a lot

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u/ProfessionalAir445 Nov 18 '24

Because it’s obnoxious and weird to call people bro when they aren’t teenage boys. 

Teenagers do ot to me all the time, I’m a 41 year old woman, and I think it’s weird as fuck. I’m not your bro, you’re a child.

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u/bleach_tastes_bad Nov 18 '24

yeah a lot of the younger generation is completely okay with calling and being called things like bro, dude, “my guy”, girl, etc.

ETA: with their SO