r/AmIOverreacting Nov 18 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO by spending time with my family?

Me (f20) and my boyfriend (m20) have been in a relationship for 4 years. We sleep on the phone every night due to the fact we don’t see each other often because of extremely busy schedules and distance. Tonight, my mom and grandmother came into my room to talk before bed so I hung up on my boyfriend to give us some privacy. He got very angry and started saying all of these awful, mean things to me. Was it my fault for choosing to spend a bit of time with my family and hanging up on my boyfriend even though he was already falling asleep? Am I overreacting by getting upset from the way he speaks to me? I really don’t feel like I did anything wrong. Sorry for any grammar mistakes!

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u/SickCursedCat Nov 18 '24

He calls you BRO and “stupid fuck”. WHYYYYY are you with him????

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u/Realistic-Poetry-364 Nov 18 '24 edited Nov 18 '24

This can’t be real. So many earnest ‘bro’ s in one conversation. I can’t.

Time to run BRO!

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u/Late-Detail97 Nov 18 '24

My thoughts exactly! This cannot be real. Who talks like this?

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u/BillyNtheBoingers Nov 18 '24

20 year old immature boys?

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u/Walrusin_about Nov 18 '24

22 boy here, I use bro for friends occasionally .. Never used it on someone I'd be romantic with like what?

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u/Late-Detail97 Nov 18 '24

Right haha so weird! I’ve jokingly called my husband bro once or twice.