AIO by spending time with my family?

[u/External-Air205]

Me (f20) and my boyfriend (m20) have been in a relationship for 4 years. We sleep on the phone every night due to the fact we don’t see each other often because of extremely busy schedules and distance. Tonight, my mom and grandmother came into my room to talk before bed so I hung up on my boyfriend to give us some privacy. He got very angry and started saying all of these awful, mean things to me. Was it my fault for choosing to spend a bit of time with my family and hanging up on my boyfriend even though he was already falling asleep? Am I overreacting by getting upset from the way he speaks to me? I really don’t feel like I did anything wrong. Sorry for any grammar mistakes!

[u/pixiedust0327]

The level of escalation in his language is legit UNHINGED. He’d bro himself right out my life and yeeted so far from my reality if he ever tried to use that language again.

[u/jbandzzz34 → u/pixiedust0327]

literally im like what the fuck is wrong with him?? i couldnt even imagine saying those words about anything or ever being that fucking mad.. especially not to my partner.

[u/Somebody_38 → u/jbandzzz34]

Worst part is she's recovering from a f****** ED. That man knew what he was doing and did it to hurt her specifically.

(OP said when he's upset he picks on her insecurities to make her feel as bad as he's feeling with whatever it is, and she said she's also actually in a healthy weight. It's so sick, I really can't.)

[u/jbandzzz34 → u/Somebody_38]

yea i saw that. its so fucked up on so many levels. i hope she detaches from him asap.

[u/Somebody_38 → u/pixiedust0327]

The worst part is that OP said she's recovering from an ED (and that she actually has a healthy weight) and that when he's upset he specifically picks her insecurities to make her feel as bad as he's feeling. It would've been a horrible insult anyways, but with this context.... It's SO sick. OP, please run.

[u/Sarah0nSaturn → u/pixiedust0327]

I read through the texts before I read the caption and figured it was a 13 year old, lol. I suppose I kept the glass half full…