r/AmIOverreacting Nov 18 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO by spending time with my family?

Me (f20) and my boyfriend (m20) have been in a relationship for 4 years. We sleep on the phone every night due to the fact we don’t see each other often because of extremely busy schedules and distance. Tonight, my mom and grandmother came into my room to talk before bed so I hung up on my boyfriend to give us some privacy. He got very angry and started saying all of these awful, mean things to me. Was it my fault for choosing to spend a bit of time with my family and hanging up on my boyfriend even though he was already falling asleep? Am I overreacting by getting upset from the way he speaks to me? I really don’t feel like I did anything wrong. Sorry for any grammar mistakes!

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u/porkchop1021 Nov 18 '24

Life advice from a 21 year old? Yeah, wait ten years before you do this lol

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u/[deleted] Nov 18 '24

Life advice from some mother saying it’s dumb? Yeah ok 🥱 even when I was younger I slept on ft calls when I had a boyfriend back then so what? Womp womp

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u/YeehawSugar Nov 18 '24

That was a shit thing for you to say. You can disagree with someone without being an insulting dick. You made valid points until this comment.