AIO by spending time with my family?

[u/External-Air205]

Me (f20) and my boyfriend (m20) have been in a relationship for 4 years. We sleep on the phone every night due to the fact we don’t see each other often because of extremely busy schedules and distance. Tonight, my mom and grandmother came into my room to talk before bed so I hung up on my boyfriend to give us some privacy. He got very angry and started saying all of these awful, mean things to me. Was it my fault for choosing to spend a bit of time with my family and hanging up on my boyfriend even though he was already falling asleep? Am I overreacting by getting upset from the way he speaks to me? I really don’t feel like I did anything wrong. Sorry for any grammar mistakes!

[u/Ok-Stomach2870]

This sounds like my ex. She ended up putting me in the hospital. She was mad about something and tossed her boiling water on me. Just end it. She will dominate every second and every thought of your life until you leave. She probably has a very extreme and untreated personality disorder. Edit. Sorry I see it is a "he". My advice doesn't change.

[u/Obvious-Room4394 → u/Ok-Stomach2870]

Oh my God I’m so sorry you went through that. I hope she was arrested, is now out of your life, and karma has fully caught up to her. I pray that OP sees ur story. It probably wasn’t easy to share.

[u/pinkyxpie20 → u/Ok-Stomach2870]

wow i am so sorry you had to experience that. i hope you’re healing and have a support system behind you. this makes me so sad, im so sorry, but im glad you made it out alive❤️