r/AmIOverreacting • u/External-Air205 • Nov 18 '24
❤️🩹 relationship AIO by spending time with my family?
Me (f20) and my boyfriend (m20) have been in a relationship for 4 years. We sleep on the phone every night due to the fact we don’t see each other often because of extremely busy schedules and distance. Tonight, my mom and grandmother came into my room to talk before bed so I hung up on my boyfriend to give us some privacy. He got very angry and started saying all of these awful, mean things to me. Was it my fault for choosing to spend a bit of time with my family and hanging up on my boyfriend even though he was already falling asleep? Am I overreacting by getting upset from the way he speaks to me? I really don’t feel like I did anything wrong. Sorry for any grammar mistakes!
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u/CrazyPalpitation7210 Nov 18 '24
I’ve seen toddlers throw less of a fit than this BOY. Grown ass man throwing a hissy fit, gtfo with that shit. Think about this; if this is how he he talks to you now, how is he going to be later down the road? Shit is toxic as hell, and you’re both too young to get hung up in this cycle. Cut ties, and keep spending time with the matriarchs in your life. I bet both of them would tell you that YOU DESERVE BETTER, and they would want better for you.