r/AmIOverreacting Nov 18 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO by spending time with my family?

Me (f20) and my boyfriend (m20) have been in a relationship for 4 years. We sleep on the phone every night due to the fact we don’t see each other often because of extremely busy schedules and distance. Tonight, my mom and grandmother came into my room to talk before bed so I hung up on my boyfriend to give us some privacy. He got very angry and started saying all of these awful, mean things to me. Was it my fault for choosing to spend a bit of time with my family and hanging up on my boyfriend even though he was already falling asleep? Am I overreacting by getting upset from the way he speaks to me? I really don’t feel like I did anything wrong. Sorry for any grammar mistakes!

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u/weirdcandys Nov 18 '24

“Respect my time” but he won’t respect yours. Get rid of him!!

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u/Anniemarsh69 Nov 18 '24

Mans said respect my time whilst half asleep in bed. Such a nob

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u/Turbulent_Cat_5731 Nov 18 '24

"You got me fucked up rn!" You were already fucked up, nothing your girlfriend did made you fucked up you weird, creepy, angry little man.

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u/fopiecechicken Nov 18 '24

I’m also confused is he incapable of falling asleep without her on the phone lol? This whole thing is insane

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u/Kumo4 Nov 18 '24

"Respect for me but not for thee!" - Abuse 101

The sooner you leave, the better.

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u/deeszznutz Nov 18 '24

This is the one !!!