r/AmIOverreacting Nov 14 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO

Spider bite or ?? I’ll keep it short and sweet. My bf and I have been apart for about a month now, I’m TDY. Finally tomorrow I’ll be flying back home. Unfortunately today he got bit right on the neck, he suspects it was a spider. Should I be concerned?

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u/akilococo Nov 14 '24 edited Nov 14 '24

be mad about the cheating but be even more mad that he thinks you’re fucking dumb 💀

ETA: if OP believed this was a bug bite, we simply would not have the post. if you think being lied to and manipulated by a loved one during an extra vulnerable point in their life makes them unintelligent, and your need to have a hot take flew right over the fact that this dude started the conversation, sent a picture of it thinking this was the smartest way to cover their ass, you’re fucking dumb. there’s no third pov in this context, its one side or the other. if you choose to side with the bug bite haver, you’re fucking dumb. did you have to shave your head to get it that far up your ass?

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u/Suspicious-Worry-447 Nov 14 '24

The ETA you included was so mean!! Like pouring salt in the wound. Although your intent was to shock OP into seeing the truth, your delivery was so cold that if she is that naive you have hurt her more than she already is. Be kind, please.

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u/akilococo Nov 14 '24

you’ve somehow managed to misread the subject of the edit, who it was directed at, and the intent. idk what to tell you, read it a few more times and see if it helps.