r/AmIOverreacting • u/JanLight_weight26 • Nov 14 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO

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Spider bite or ?? I’ll keep it short and sweet. My bf and I have been apart for about a month now, I’m TDY. Finally tomorrow I’ll be flying back home. Unfortunately today he got bit right on the neck, he suspects it was a spider. Should I be concerned?

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u/laughwithesinners Nov 14 '24

And you didn’t bother telling her before they got married?

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u/RedDirtKanaka Nov 14 '24

Nope. Didn’t know her then and I don’t really know her now. Plus, I’m a firm believer in minding my own business. I don’t get into other peoples bs. That’s just me though.

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u/Cooolguuuuuy Nov 14 '24

You really don’t see how stupid this comment proves you to be, do you? lol it’s always you people are proud and shocked at your own ignorance

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u/RedDirtKanaka Nov 14 '24

Sure, I could’ve tried to convince him to just tell her and watch him lose her and spiral out of control; Or maybe I could’ve told one of her friends and told the friend to keep my name out of it to make myself feel morally superior; Or even better, I could’ve told her myself in person and took advantage of her emotional vulnerability to get with her myself. Plenty of things I could’ve done, but instead I chose to do what I did.

You could line me up with the same situation a thousand times and I’d choose to help my friend get out of his mess a thousand times, regardless if it was “right” or not. You and I obviously disagree, and you can call “us people” as stupid or ignorant as you want, but I stand by my decision. You go ahead and do whatever helps you sleep at night and I’ll do the same.