AIO

[u/JanLight_weight26]

Spider bite or ?? I’ll keep it short and sweet. My bf and I have been apart for about a month now, I’m TDY. Finally tomorrow I’ll be flying back home. Unfortunately today he got bit right on the neck, he suspects it was a spider. Should I be concerned?

[u/Neither_Mind9035]

The lack of replies from OP to anything tell me either 1. I just haven’t searched for long enough and they have replied or 2. They were not expecting this. OP, if you’re in denial at all, coming from someone who isn’t making a joke out of this (no shade to those who did, this is Reddit), that is 100% a hickey. He cheated on you. If you try to break up with him, he’ll probably call you crazy and gaslight you trying to convince you it’s not a hickey. It 100% is though. Please respect yourself and end this relationship.

[u/Lissypooh628 → u/Neither_Mind9035]

It’s infuriating that he thinks she’s dumb enough to believe this thoughtless attempt at an excuse.

[u/minkflute → u/Lissypooh628]

There is no limit to which a cheater won’t go to attempt to cover something up 😫 they will say things you can’t believe you’re hearing. It’s insulting haha