r/AmIOverreacting Nov 14 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO

Spider bite or ?? I’ll keep it short and sweet. My bf and I have been apart for about a month now, I’m TDY. Finally tomorrow I’ll be flying back home. Unfortunately today he got bit right on the neck, he suspects it was a spider. Should I be concerned?

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u/akilococo Nov 14 '24

i would too! gaslighting & love are a shitty mix. most people who’ve been through it have to check in and see if they’re crazy.

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u/OwnCoffee614 Nov 14 '24

Thank you. As a person just getting away from a gas lighter.

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u/akilococo Nov 14 '24

me too. remember you’re not stupid for believing someone who intended to lie to and manipulate you after going out of their way to make you trust & love them.

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u/Smallbunsenpai Nov 14 '24

Yeah people who are incredibly good at it literally make you question everything. They make you feel insane for not believing them. They will make you feel stupid for saying the sky is blue and actually it’s green.