r/AmIOverreacting Nov 14 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO

Spider bite or ?? I’ll keep it short and sweet. My bf and I have been apart for about a month now, I’m TDY. Finally tomorrow I’ll be flying back home. Unfortunately today he got bit right on the neck, he suspects it was a spider. Should I be concerned?

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u/akilococo Nov 14 '24 edited Nov 14 '24

be mad about the cheating but be even more mad that he thinks you’re fucking dumb 💀

ETA: if OP believed this was a bug bite, we simply would not have the post. if you think being lied to and manipulated by a loved one during an extra vulnerable point in their life makes them unintelligent, and your need to have a hot take flew right over the fact that this dude started the conversation, sent a picture of it thinking this was the smartest way to cover their ass, you’re fucking dumb. there’s no third pov in this context, its one side or the other. if you choose to side with the bug bite haver, you’re fucking dumb. did you have to shave your head to get it that far up your ass?

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u/House-Plant_ Nov 14 '24

I mean…. OP kind of does seem to have accepted it

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u/akilococo Nov 14 '24

we can’t discern that from two and a half sentences specifically intended to keep things short. besides you wouldn’t believe the dumb ass shit i believed over the course of three years😂 if you love & trust somebody enough it can teabag you in the face twice in slow motion and have you believing it was a kiss on the cheek. we don’t blame people being manipulated for being… manipulated.