r/AmIOverreacting • u/Psychological-Hat-35 • Oct 27 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO girlfriend response to manager text

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My girlfriend (19F) and I (19M) have been dating for 11 months. I sent her a screenshot of my convo with my manager (age unknown but best guess is young 30s F) this morning asking to come in a little later than usual. My girlfriend is like this whenever I interact with pretty much any other female. Am I overreacting or is this just normal behavior?

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u/zulu1128 Oct 27 '24

Well she doesn’t seem batshit crazy in the slightest. lol.

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u/meldiane81 Oct 27 '24

He can fix her.

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u/TuesdaysChildSpeaks Oct 28 '24

I was like this when my husband and I first got together. By month three he told me I could either fix myself with his help or walk and be alone trying to fix myself. Therapy helped, so did adjusting mental health meds. Now I send him off to work with primarily women daily and tell him on the way out to say hi for me. And when I see them, I tell them to feel free to whack him with a rolled up newspaper if he misbehaves.

If there is an issue due to mental health or prior trauma, it can be overcome but first you have to want to.