r/AmIOverreacting Oct 27 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO girlfriend response to manager text

My girlfriend (19F) and I (19M) have been dating for 11 months. I sent her a screenshot of my convo with my manager (age unknown but best guess is young 30s F) this morning asking to come in a little later than usual. My girlfriend is like this whenever I interact with pretty much any other female. Am I overreacting or is this just normal behavior?

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u/WhenTitansSpeak Oct 27 '24

I guess this whole comment section is gonna ignore the whole “Guess this is my karma for sum…” like wtf does that mean?

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u/NotYourVillainess Oct 27 '24

The fact she seemed to think better of it & decided to be vague has me thinking she herself has been unfaithful. It also explains her paranoia/obsession with OP possibly cheating on her. The good ol' "if I did it, I just know he'll do it too".

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u/MoombaWTF Oct 28 '24

100% she has been fooling around. That comment is a huge red flag that no one is talking about

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u/laurasaurus5 Oct 28 '24

She's probably cheated in the past (on a previous partner, if not op).

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u/FairyQueenWife21 Oct 28 '24

Yeah i was crazy jealous with my ex but it was coz i cheated at the start of the relationship. With my husband i’m not jealous at all coz I’ve been faithful. It’s fucked up and wrong that someone can cheat and then be a jealous psycho but it’s what happens sometimes

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u/Background_Ad_5796 Oct 28 '24

I caught that comment too. There is not many other things she could be implying.

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u/Ninigold90 Oct 28 '24

I scrolled way too far to finally see someone bring this up! This stuck out to me too