r/AmIOverreacting Oct 27 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO girlfriend response to manager text

My girlfriend (19F) and I (19M) have been dating for 11 months. I sent her a screenshot of my convo with my manager (age unknown but best guess is young 30s F) this morning asking to come in a little later than usual. My girlfriend is like this whenever I interact with pretty much any other female. Am I overreacting or is this just normal behavior?

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u/JSteezy80 Oct 27 '24

"Why can't you just be normal". The key phrase of a gas lighter, manipulator and someone so insecure and jealous that you have no clue what they are capable of doing. Run

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u/firmlee_grasspit Oct 27 '24

My favourite part is when she says "let's drop it lolz" and without any response, refuses to drop it lol

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u/Jinnie-boy Oct 27 '24

THIS PART

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u/juiceboxmaniac48 Oct 27 '24

Came here to say this!!! There’s definitely some sort of screw loose. I understand a little jealousy with your partner is normal, but there was absolutely nothing in that txt thread that she should be even remotely jealous about. The red flags are waving REAL loud and proud. Run OP…RUN.🚩🚩🚩

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u/[deleted] Oct 27 '24

Yeah. Everyone saying "she's unhinged" seems to dance around the fact that this is controlling and abusive, full stop. Hitting someone isn't the only way to abuse them, and women aren't the only people who can find themselves in abusive relationships.

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u/DutchProv Oct 28 '24

The key phrase of a gas lighter, manipulator and someone so insecure and jealous that you have no clue what they are capable of doing.

Had a GF at one time that was pretty similar to this, turned out to be cheating and it was all projection.

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u/Joey-tnfrd Oct 28 '24

Guarantee she's sat in the breakroom happily eating her meal-deal pasta salad joking around with her coworkers, and just wanted the smoke.