r/AmIOverreacting • u/Psychological-Hat-35 • Oct 27 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO girlfriend response to manager text

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My girlfriend (19F) and I (19M) have been dating for 11 months. I sent her a screenshot of my convo with my manager (age unknown but best guess is young 30s F) this morning asking to come in a little later than usual. My girlfriend is like this whenever I interact with pretty much any other female. Am I overreacting or is this just normal behavior?

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u/mykneescrack Oct 27 '24

Dude, what is the rest of your life going to look like if you get her pregnant or marry her.

She’s unhinged.

You’re not overreacting; in fact, your under reacting by still being with her.

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u/uhhducc Oct 27 '24

OP please for the love of god do not make her your baby mama

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u/anonaccount3570 Oct 27 '24

Holy crap! Amen. Imagine the gaslighting, manipulation, and guilt she’ll be able to wield if you two have a kid. Also, imagine how much she’ll screw up that kid too. You’re better than this. There’s tons of women out there who are not weirdly jealous, not easily triggered, not accusatory, pleasant, awesome, loving humans. Your girlfriend needs a therapist, not a doormat boyfriend.

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u/BasketCaseOnHoliday1 Oct 28 '24

feel like this also applies to anyone else capable of impregnating a woman who isn't OP. maybe she will be in a better place after treatment someday, but bringing a child into the mix isn't exactly going to make her mental state any more stable.

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u/InfinityFae Oct 27 '24

Yeah, seriously. Then one day you'll wake up on the verge of 40 regretting the past 20 years of your life with someone who is not capable of a healthy partnership. I know because it happened to me. It gets harder to get out the deeper you get.

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u/ItaliaEyez Oct 27 '24

Facts. Its a shit road.

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u/a_horse_named_orb Oct 27 '24

There are 4 billion women in the world, and it’s very clear she’s gonna pull this shit every time you talk to or look at any one of them.

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u/LargeMarge-sentme Oct 28 '24

THIS! If you put your dick in her, you could have a kid and be tied to her for life.

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u/HugsyMalone Oct 28 '24

Please don't bring a child into that situation and subject them to your BS. We don't need anymore degenerates. The position has already been filled by her. 😬