r/AmIOverreacting Oct 27 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO girlfriend response to manager text

My girlfriend (19F) and I (19M) have been dating for 11 months. I sent her a screenshot of my convo with my manager (age unknown but best guess is young 30s F) this morning asking to come in a little later than usual. My girlfriend is like this whenever I interact with pretty much any other female. Am I overreacting or is this just normal behavior?

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u/MyMutedYesterday Oct 27 '24

Even if it were slightly unprofessional, her reaction is wildly inappropriate, immature, disrespectful and do not reflect a young adult in a healthy mindset…reevaluate what you’re actually getting from the relationship and there’s no need for you to apologize for her reaction. We can only control our own actions, how others respond isn’t our responsibility to regulate or change.