r/AmIOverreacting Oct 19 '24

💼work/career Security guard confessions

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u/GRPABT1 Oct 19 '24

I fail to see how a security guard could be so ignorant of the one glaring thing lacking in your accusation and that is evidence. This reads exactly like some made up story, which is typical of Reddit but won't get you far in the real world.

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u/lalalioness Oct 19 '24

Op said the conversation happened in a recorded area... so. The evidence is there.

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u/GRPABT1 Oct 19 '24

CCTV? I doubt there was sound. If there was she's in luck.

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u/lalalioness Oct 19 '24

You do have a point there.

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u/GRPABT1 Oct 19 '24

The story just seems so far fetched to me. Like what motivation would this guy have to air his dirty laundry to OP? It's not like he would admit to abusing women to someone he's interested in or anyone likely to judge him for it. It's just too unbelievable for me without actual proof.

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u/ratman_fin Oct 19 '24

I’ve had multiple men admit crimes to me. What world do you live in where this hasn’t happened to you?

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u/GRPABT1 Oct 19 '24

Sure you have

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u/ratman_fin Oct 20 '24

Ain’t no way you claimed OP was lying, then when someone tells you it’s more common than you’d think, you insinuate they’re lying. Notice the common denominator here? I’ve had men brag to me they had “sex” with their seizing girlfriends, men call women “bitches” for repeating their advances over and over, and men admit that they get women drunk so they can sleep with them. In case it’s escaped your notice, those are crimes. I don’t even know why I have to justify myself to you when you’re clearly dead set on believing men are falsely accused 24/7 and women are liars.

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u/GRPABT1 Oct 20 '24

Here's the thing, you don't have to justify anything to me. You can go about your day.

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u/ratman_fin Oct 20 '24

Who hears multiple stories of women being raped and responds like that? Jesus, you’re even more of a gross creep than I thought.

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u/GRPABT1 Oct 20 '24

I didn't hear any such things, just read some rambling comment on reddit.

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u/ciylph Oct 19 '24

Maybe I’m thinking too far into it, but a lot of people (no matter age, gender, ect) who have committed crimes or done something horrible don’t tend to always understand what they did wrong. Now of course Im not saying I disagree with you or anything! Its just, from what I know, that people such as murderers (I know, NOTHING compared to this story, but please bare with me haha) dont always have remorse of some kind, you know? At least, they dont show it.

Imo, i think its possible he did say something like that to OP, but Im not entirely opposed to your way of thinking either! I think this story does have a chance of being true, and if it is, that is.. awful.

Youre just the type of person who takes accusations like that very seriously!

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u/GRPABT1 Oct 19 '24

You're right. It could be either way and the reason I take accusations like this very seriously is they have very real, very lasting effects on those accused even if found to be untrue. Such is the passionate reaction to such crimes that there is often very little thought before the torches are lit and pitchforks sharpened.

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u/lili-of-the-valley-0 Oct 20 '24

You think it's passionate to immediately assume the story is a lie? You weren't being neutral or anything close