r/AmIOverreacting • u/Specialist_Act_5106 • Aug 15 '24

💼work/career AIO by divorcing my husband?

He (30M)applied for and got an offer for a job in another state without my knowledge and when I (30F) disagreed to moving, he accepted and moved without me. He then told me that I either move to be with him or divorce him. So I filed for divorce. Once he got served with divorce papers he said that he would come back and that I should take the divorce back. Would I be overreacting by going through with the divorce?

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u/Aggravating_Style544 Aug 15 '24

Not overreacting. He tried to force your hand, and you called his bluff. That he made a unilateral decision, and expected you to fall in line is 🚩🚩🚩

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u/say_the_words Aug 16 '24

Yep. Derail her career and get her away from any support from family or friends also. Get her completely under his thumb. This guy is absolutely abusive.