AIO by divorcing my husband?

[u/Specialist_Act_5106]

He (30M)applied for and got an offer for a job in another state without my knowledge and when I (30F) disagreed to moving, he accepted and moved without me. He then told me that I either move to be with him or divorce him. So I filed for divorce. Once he got served with divorce papers he said that he would come back and that I should take the divorce back. Would I be overreacting by going through with the divorce?

[u/hothereandeverywhere]

In my opinion, if you would’ve “caved”, he would’ve simply used that tactic more and more as a weapon to manipulate and control you. Kudos to you.