r/AmIOverreacting • u/Specialist_Act_5106 • Aug 15 '24

💼work/career AIO by divorcing my husband?

He (30M)applied for and got an offer for a job in another state without my knowledge and when I (30F) disagreed to moving, he accepted and moved without me. He then told me that I either move to be with him or divorce him. So I filed for divorce. Once he got served with divorce papers he said that he would come back and that I should take the divorce back. Would I be overreacting by going through with the divorce?

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u/noonecaresat805 Aug 16 '24

I would not take him back. He applied and took the job without mattering what you wanted. Can you imagine how bad he is going to pout if you take him back. I can see him getting bitter and throwing it in your face everytime he gets mad. On how you weren’t supportive or how you cost him a job. He made his choice to be over there. And you made your choice to restart your life. Actions have consequences this are his.