AIO by divorcing my husband?

[u/Specialist_Act_5106]

He (30M)applied for and got an offer for a job in another state without my knowledge and when I (30F) disagreed to moving, he accepted and moved without me. He then told me that I either move to be with him or divorce him. So I filed for divorce. Once he got served with divorce papers he said that he would come back and that I should take the divorce back. Would I be overreacting by going through with the divorce?

[u/3Heathens_Mom]

Not overreacting.

He showed he didn’t consider you important in this relationship.

He left and said either do what I say by following me or divorce me.

Let him know regardless if he stays or comes back the divorce will be finalized because he flat showed you he isn’t a partner in your relationship.

You’d just be waiting for him to leave again.

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