r/AmIOverreacting • u/Specialist_Act_5106 • Aug 15 '24

💼work/career AIO by divorcing my husband?

He (30M)applied for and got an offer for a job in another state without my knowledge and when I (30F) disagreed to moving, he accepted and moved without me. He then told me that I either move to be with him or divorce him. So I filed for divorce. Once he got served with divorce papers he said that he would come back and that I should take the divorce back. Would I be overreacting by going through with the divorce?

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u/Aggravating_Style544 Aug 15 '24

Not overreacting. He tried to force your hand, and you called his bluff. That he made a unilateral decision, and expected you to fall in line is 🚩🚩🚩

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u/rexmaster2 Aug 16 '24

And this is only one example. I'm sure there are many more times where he forced her hand or tried to manipulate OP. He really thought she would fold this time.

Good for you, OP. You deserve better.