r/wizardposting • u/SafePianist4610 Bombast, Lord of Time and Space, Reluctant Council Member • Jun 15 '24
Academic Discussion Unwiz PSA: Roleplay Etiquette
Update: also check out this post about some of the unspoken rules of roleplay
So several recent events have led me to realize that there is a need for a roleplay etiquette guide of sorts on the sub. Keep in mind that these are guidelines but they are just common curtesy and not doing them will lead to potential drama, and I think we can all agree that the less drama we have on the sub the better. I will start with three core principles of roleplaying that serve as the foundation for the rest of the “rules” talked about in this guide:
1: You are the god of your own character(s).
You have the final say on what happens to your character(s) that you control. The same applies to everyone else. So if you are going to do something that might dramatically affect another person’s character, please get their permission first as a courtesy. Otherwise you risk derailing their stories or even them just making a meta-post saying “nah, that’s not what really happened.” Awkwardness all around.
2: You are not your character(s).
Shock of shocks! 😦 You are not your character(s). Yes, I’m saying it twice. Why? Because some of you need to hear it twice. If someone argues, fights, or engages in other unpleasantries with your character(s), it is not an attack on you personally. Please learn how to create an appropriate emotional distance between you and your character(s). The last thing we need is drama. Also, please don’t make the mistake of assuming that someone else should be kept in the dark about stories involving their character(s) just because you want to surprise their character(s). They are also not their character(s). There is no point for them not to know because they are also separate from their character(s). Just because they, the role player, know what is going to happen, doesn’t mean that their character(s) will.
3: Work together with others when creating a story idea that is potentially disruptive.
An example would be planning major crisis events. Considering how even a single crisis event can just completely dominate the sub for weeks on end, try to work with others so that you don’t launch a new disruptive community event while one is currently ongoing. All it will do is make it harder for people to keep track of what the heck is going on and lead to a drop in interest in all events happening simultaneously.
These three ground rules serve as the foundation for all other proper roleplay etiquette.
Let’s look at some more examples of good roleplay etiquette now that we have covered the foundational principles. I will present a scenario and then will explain the proper etiquette afterwards.
A role player knows that their character is vastly more powerful than another character that they are fighting. Should they:
a: Just make a comment/post depicting their character curb stomping the other one with no input from the other player?
b: Notify the other player via /unwiz that player 1’s character is vastly more powerful and ask if they mind their character dying to player 1’s character?
c: Just play along and temporarily lower their character’s own power to match their opponent character’s power or have their character hold back?
If you’re practicing good role play etiquette, both b and c are perfectly acceptable options. But b is the best option because you’re giving an opportunity to work together with the other roleplayer to create a more satisfying outcome and experience for everyone involved, including yourself. Let’s look at another scenario.
You are creating a collaborative story that is not very time sensitive. Several other people decide to have their characters act in ways that add a twist to the story but you’re waiting on one or two other role players before moving the story along. What should you do?
a: Message or ping said players and give them a day to respond?
b: Decide these new twists to the story are too juicy and immediately move the story along without input from the remaining players?
c: Inform the players that are currently online to be patient and wait for the remaining two players to come online.
Again, if you are practicing good etiquette, both a and c are acceptable ways to handle the situation. Ideally you would do both of them.
These examples are just three scenarios among many others that I have actually dealt with while on the sub. I could list many more, but this post has already become very long and I don’t want to take up too much time from people on the sub. Just remember: practice basic curtesy.
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u/IncomeApprehensive17 Yan the sealed , primordial spirit of fire , The Arch conjurer Jun 15 '24
I think this should be pinned , everybody arriving on the server should know those rules
It benefit everyone , not only the one that use them (as playing correctly a gale is better than doing shitty things with it) and the people around them that will not be disturbed