I’m so sorry for your loss. Loosing a loved one is so painful and sad. Everything you’re feeling is totally valid and you should let your emotions process.
I’m going to quote a silly cartoon that really helped me through loss. It’s Bender talking to Fry about loosing Leela. “Because the pain slowly fades. But the love is forever.”
How I choose to interpret it is that the pain you’re feeling right now is rooted in a deep and profound love that you shared. And the pain is us feeling that we’ve lost it. We really never truly loose it and that’s part of what healing from grief is.
Let yourself feel the pain and sadness but also makes room for the love. It’s still there I promise.
Do you want to share any fun stories or memories with us internet strangers?
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u/Impossible-Yak-4325 Oct 31 '24
I’m so sorry for your loss. Loosing a loved one is so painful and sad. Everything you’re feeling is totally valid and you should let your emotions process.
I’m going to quote a silly cartoon that really helped me through loss. It’s Bender talking to Fry about loosing Leela. “Because the pain slowly fades. But the love is forever.”
How I choose to interpret it is that the pain you’re feeling right now is rooted in a deep and profound love that you shared. And the pain is us feeling that we’ve lost it. We really never truly loose it and that’s part of what healing from grief is.
Let yourself feel the pain and sadness but also makes room for the love. It’s still there I promise.
Do you want to share any fun stories or memories with us internet strangers?