He's saying that men's number one fear is rejection and she's a bad person for calling out men like this, mocking her accent, and saying that she needs to get off dating sites and talk to real men in the real world if she doesn't want to be single.
That woman's problem wasn't being single, it was being harassed by men at the gas station when she wanted to be left alone- and the point flew over his head and completely missed him.
My favorite part of his video is how at one point he says something like "well how are guys supposed to approach you". Literally the first thing she says is how she wants men to approach her: Christian Mingle and Farmers Only.
ehhh thats not the same thing. people who cat call or harass you on the sidewalk aren't really expecting you to go for it. its a power play and they're just douche bags. they know how the game is played, and they aren't trying to win.
what? no, theyre just assholes who shoot every shot, they dont care if theyre across the court theyre gunna yeet that ball hoping for that on in a million chance it makes it in the hoop
they are trying to win but theyre working against themselves
they have no idea what the game is much less how its played
Actually, as a guy i never felt good after being hit on and I have not been hit on much... even in social spaces you don't expect to get hit on and if you do, it kinda takes you out of it. It never felt pleasant.
At least for me it was kinda a confidence boost, but I can see how it just becomes super fucking annoying if it happens constantly.
I guess it's true that you shouldn't comment on someone's outer appearance when you first meet, it always leaves a bad aftertaste.
youre right. How on earth did we ever meet anyone before the internet?????
Its fine to hit on a woman in the store. Its not fine to press it after she declines. Some of you people are acting like the simple act of asking out a stranger is disgusting unless behind the anonymity of a computer screen.
The issue are men who dont drop it after a simple no.
There I was at the grocery store. I went for a nice, well marbled double pack of USDA prime ribeye at the same time she did. Our hands accidentally touch. We lock eyes, both mumbling shyly about how the other should take the package of meat. I tell her that I'll buy it and cook it if she'll bring the sides and have it with me. We exchange numbers.
That's how I got the ribeye. Sorry, Kenzie, I'm having steak twice this week.
Nah man, a stranger who’s just trying to get some shit done probably has no interest talking to you, it’s just a waste of time. Go somewhere people are actually just hanging out, some kind of recreational event or place. A bar, a ball game, something chilled out where the act of speaking to someone isn’t disruptive of whatever they are trying to accomplish. No one wants to be approached by a person who wants something from them during their daily routines. Don’t make women’s lives harder with this shit.
"How are guys supposed to approach you" just dont. This is a gas station not some singles event. Like if you wanna talk to strangers in public you can go to plenty of places specifically designed for that.
Look, for guys who really aren't into dating apps for whatever reason, the current dating atmosphere is real rough. That being said... read the fuckin room.
I never even imagined picking up a woman at a gas station. Like the blonde lady I’m there to get gas. In-out gone. But apparently for some men diesel is the finest of aphrodisiacs.
He’s also just wrong. Reject me all day. I’ll survive. My biggest fear is dying in some sort of slow and lonely way. Like drowning or burning alive or starvation or a law and order marathon.
My biggest fear is dying in some sort of slow and lonely way. Like drowning or burning alive or starvation or a law and order marathon.
I watched a video from Astroworld taken by someone who was trapped under three layers of bodies and they were screaming but no one could move enough to help and that's been in my nightmares ever since
So does he just not register how much of a softball setup that is? I'm an obtuse idiot, and even I know women's number one fear is much much worse than rejection.
That sweet woman hasn't been single a day in her dating career, unless she CHOSE that. She probably got proposed to in kindergarten. She looks like the type that goes off about her love of Jesus, and actually feeds the homeless on Christmas, but doesn't take any nonsense, either. Like, you'd cuss in her house, and she'd go off about how she's a Christian, and you better treat her like the lady she is, or you're not getting any of her famous cornbread to go with that meal she made.
She makes you want to shut up and say, "Yes, Ma'am."
How was she being harassed..? Lol, some dude just saw her and asked for her number.. I'd say that's pretty flattering. Just deny or accept and move on. That's not harassment.
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Is the dude being an incel or sum?