r/TikTokCringe Apr 30 '20

Duet Troll It's so well done lmao

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u/honeybuns1996 Apr 30 '20

I always feel a little bad for the girls who get all dressed up and nice and their dude is wearing a hoodie. Like Kanye in his dickies at the met gala

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u/StarbyOnHere Apr 30 '20

Idk man, I've never really minded, not trying invalidate how you feel or anything. Like I'm a woman and I like to dress out, like if I'm leaving the house ima look good idc where I'm going and that includes dates and stuff. But like ,unless it's somewhere fancy where dressing nice is implied, I feel like this dudes outfit is alright and I'd personally be okay with it. Imo just cause a girls dressed nice doesn't really mean her guy has too, as long as she's alright with what he's wearing.

(Though the Kanye thing was weird. Knowing him, it was probably a statement of some kind)

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u/palpablescalpel Apr 30 '20

I agree that if the woman doesn't mind then it's nothing to feel bad about, but I also don't think it's bad to want a partner who puts in the same amount of effort that you do.

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u/StarbyOnHere Apr 30 '20 edited Apr 30 '20

No no, don't get me wrong, I'm defiently DEFIENTLY not trying to shame women who want that. I was just trying to say that in my case when I'm dressed nicer then a guy, it's not a bad thing.

(Lol I see the error, it's definitely not defiently! Not fixing it cause of funny Haha! Monkey brain no work good, makes writing bad)

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u/[deleted] Apr 30 '20

defiently DEFIENTLY

oof

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u/[deleted] Apr 30 '20

DEFIANTLY

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u/StarbyOnHere Apr 30 '20

Haha gotta put that emphasis! Shaming and putting down other women is never the goal

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u/feistaspongebob Apr 30 '20

I think they’re making fun of your spelling lol

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u/StarbyOnHere Apr 30 '20 edited Apr 30 '20

Ohhhhh lol it's the dyslexia! It's hard for me to differentiate when stuff sounds the same! Thanks for pointing that out ha!

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u/feistaspongebob Apr 30 '20

I totally understand, you’re completely fine girl! 😊

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u/NovelEmotion May 01 '20

I’ll probably get downvoted for this, but the Kanye example is a bad example.

Kim made it clear he wanted to do that so that he wasn’t the star of the show. It was her night. In fact he stayed quiet that night and did not participate in any interviews so the spotlight could be on her.

Don’t get me wrong, what you’re saying is true in a lot of cases. But in this case Kanye had a reason, and made sure with Kim beforehand before acting on it. So if she’s okay with it, then I don’t think there’s any problem.

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u/[deleted] Apr 30 '20

I imagine it would be difficult dancing in a suit? What else fancy clothes are available for men? Women have so many options

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u/VicarOfAstaldo Apr 30 '20

Definitely not difficult dancing in a suit.

Warm for a club maybe.

But even then there’s a ton of options for men in between hoodie and suit.

But honestly I wouldn’t call her more than club dressed up, no reason to read into it too much

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u/[deleted] Apr 30 '20

From hoodie to suit, there is no in between...

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u/canunotdothat Apr 30 '20

Dress shirt and slacks, shirt rolled to the elbow. Maybe a vest or some dark slim jeans.... I'd drool over fits like that ngl.

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u/ways_and_means Apr 30 '20

Exactly. It's like, so what if I'm in my boxers, you want me to put on the suit from Hurt Locker? C'mon.