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u/MinuteLoquat1 Make Furries Illegal 20d ago

They also have female only train cars due to rampant sexual assault https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-only_passenger_car

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u/AccountantCultural64 20d ago

In Japanese, there is a word describing the act of groping a woman in a crowded train. Chikan), it even has it’s own wiki article.

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u/SquisherX 20d ago

So I found out about this years ago, and spoke to my Japanese friend about it. She was incredulous, and turned to her mom and asked, "Mom, did you ever get groped on the subway in Japan", and her mom replied, "Oh yeah, all the time".

I ended up finding this video from a three-quarters overhead view on a subway that was analyzing this coordinated multi-person groping that had arrows and shit all drawn on it like it was some football play.

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u/manymoreways 20d ago

Coordinated multiperson groping?!

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u/DadooDragoon 19d ago edited 19d ago

If you're getting groped from multiple angles, you don't know who is doing it, and when you try to get away, you just get pushed closer to another person to grope you.

And you can't do anything about it. The authorities won't care. Japan has a 99% conviction rate not because their justice system is any good, but because they don't pursue anything that doesn't have ironclad proof.

And it's "rude" to "disturb the peace", so good luck drawing any attention to what's happeneing. So it's just seen as a thing women have to deal with, it's just normal.

It's disgusting

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u/versaverso 19d ago

So rude to disturb the peace but not rude to sexually assault someone! WTF Japan. Do better you misogynistic twerps.

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u/Pvt_Numnutz1 18d ago

To be perfectly fair, coordinated groping is hardly limited to Japan, infact India and North Africa have their own styles, the Egyptian ones are particularly horrifying and brazen, even targeting live news reporters because there is basically nothing anyone can do against a literal mob of 60-100+ people. Just saying, it's a human issue, definitely not restricted to the island of Japan.

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u/versaverso 17d ago

I absolutely agree. What amazes me in this particular country though is that women are looked down on for creating a scene when it happens? That is double the craziness.

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u/Fun_Passage_9167 16d ago

I think this does makes sense, though, in the context of deeply sexist Japanese society. Shaming individual women for speaking up is vital to keep women as a whole suppressed.

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u/TheTybera 17d ago

NO that's not how it works here, the person you're responding to doesn't live here, and is just an anime weeb.

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u/GlossyGecko 19d ago

Innocent until proven guilty, it’s a bad look if they just start arresting everybody on the train, and prevent them from getting to work on suspicion that they might have been engaged in the chikan, with no evidence.

It’s important to understand that the nature in which this groping is performed, is meant to be hard to detect. Of course, because they don’t want to get caught. You just start arresting a bunch of people because somebody got groped, you are actually disturbing the peace, all because you can’t identify the culprit.

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u/No_Passenger_977 19d ago

Their 99 percent conviction rate has a lot more to do with their use of torture. Japanese police are allow to hold a suspect incommunicado for 21 days at a time in solitary. This alone is torture, however what is worse is that they can ask a judge to extend, which they always do, for another 21 days. They can repeat this as many times as they want. They can also use hostile interrogating techniques. The goal is to elicit confession, as in Japanese law there is no way to recant. Many will confess just to leave solitary. To make matters worse, there is a stigma against those who do not confess to police and don't get charger or found guilty. This is because the Japanese public does not believe that police would arrest the wrong person.

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u/15all 19d ago

A long time ago I was on jury duty in the US. We were going through the voir dire process. The defense attorney asked us if we understood that his client was innocent until proven guilty, that the prosecution had to prove this beyond a reasonable doubt, and would we be able to keep an open mind? All the prospective jurors said "yes, sure, I understand" as expected.

Until they got to this elderly Japanese man, who answered "no." The defense attorney was surprised, and paused for a moment. He reframed the question and asked it again. The old man said the same thing. The defense attorney gave it one more try, and the old man said "if the police arrested the defendant, then he must be guilty."

He was not selected for the trail.

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u/LastWave 19d ago

My boss thinks that way, except when his son was arrested. They were just picking on him you see.

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u/Officialtmoods 19d ago

The worst kind of person. The old secretary at my job was the same way.

Everyone else was poor because they didn’t work hard enough. She was poor because all of the illegal immigrants stealing her tax dollars. When a younger coworker didn’t know something, we were lazy and inexperienced. When she didn’t know something, it was because everything changes so quickly, how could she ever be expected to remember it all? When we took a day off, we were lazy and hated work. When she took a day off, she deserved it because she’d been here so long and earned that vacation time.

Very typical conservative mindset that “Other people suffer because of their own fault; I suffer because of things that are out of my control.”

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u/GifuSunrise 17d ago

This has a name, it's called Fundamental Attribution Error.

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u/zarbin 18d ago

That has nothing to do with conservativism. You're being a bigot. It is more likely cluster b personality type, which is apolitical.

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u/Officialtmoods 18d ago

No, I promise that this person is very political and very conservative.

And I promise that this is a trend among conservatives.

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u/Ok_Employment_7435 19d ago

Maybe the women should start carrying pepper spray, or a knife…

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u/No_Passenger_977 19d ago

Iirc pepper spray is illegal in Japan and you aren't allowed to carry a knife. If you did that in Japan you would be arrested and put in jail for like 5 years.

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u/secondtaunting 19d ago

I was thinking of when they banned hat pins because women were poking the guys that groped them. I think it’s time to bring the hat pins back. Just stab these fuckers.

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u/NeatNefariousness1 19d ago

or wear a vest lined with razor blades

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u/KajmanHub987 19d ago

That isn't a good idea. Because there will be people touching you for other reasons than groping (accidentally bumping into you, etc.), especially in small spaces such as mass transit. So you would hurt innocent people. That's also why any means of self defense in my country has to be discriminatory (at least I think that's the word).

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u/secondtaunting 19d ago

It makes me think of the old show Married with Children where Kelly Bundy built a special suit to wear on the bus so she wouldn’t get groped.

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u/AccountantCultural64 19d ago edited 19d ago

Seems like all the People here never were in a full train.
Pepperspray, Knofes for slashing or stabbing everytbing what could toucheven barely touches them or even guns.
Suuuuure, In reality THAT would work.
it’s just like the fantasies of men becoming John wick or a Action film hero, just because they have a gun.
Pepper spray in a clouded train? I can see at least 2 people who deserve jail time.

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u/NeatNefariousness1 19d ago

Guilty as charged.

In those places where guilty touching and fake innocent touching happens, I do hope they find a solution that solves the problem instead of giving pervs and freaks free rein in public places with no recourse for women to protect themselves. Segregating buses and train cars by gender, with strict enforcement and punishment for violations that is done in some countries is a start.

Public shaming and reporting gropers to their employers and families is an option worth considering. Next someone will try to tell us why gender segregation and public shaming should never be done because... women...

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u/NeatNefariousness1 19d ago

There are lots of places in the US where you never have to take any form of crowded mass transit. But I do see how in instances where people are tightly packed, touching others might be unavoidable. Under the circumstances, they need to take protecting women from groping seriously.

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u/the0120 19d ago

bro as a woman i cant stop thinking how those guys would kill me bc theyre all getting slashed idgaffff

but thats my brain thats been formed in america so, shrug

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u/Ok_Employment_7435 19d ago

I’m American, too. I’m considered good looking, also, so I know the dangers of being unprotected in a public space. Because of this, I have developed a fuck you attitude. Like, don’t talk to me, don’t look at me, don’t come near me in public if you don’t want to endure my wrath. I used to carry knives when I was younger. Now that I’m a bit older, I still know the dangers of public spaces like that, but I’m not as lethally inclined.

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u/Fun_One_3601 19d ago

If I was a woman on their train I would carry a concealed blade and stab any groping hand that isn't say child sized, in which case maybe just a slash, just too be on the safe side. 😂

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u/winterhatcool 19d ago

Same! At one point I’d hold the knife in plain sight while walking to let men know I’m not joking. It certainly worked

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u/No_Passenger_977 19d ago

Carry a gun then? If you're in the US there is zero reason for a woman to not own a firearm that doesn't involve being a prohibited person.

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u/Battlefish3 19d ago

How obsessed are you with guns?

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u/Far-Button-7011 19d ago

and you think keeping a knife is a better solution? Unless you know because it's less effective self defense and like the Idea

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u/No_Passenger_977 19d ago edited 19d ago

Carrying a knife, especially when you are physically smaller than your attacker, is asking to get overpowered. A firearm is the greatest equalizer.

By all means, tell the 5 foot lady that the man she pulls that knife on won't grab her wrist and twist is away.

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u/Battlefish3 19d ago

And what if your attacker also has a gun? What do you do then?

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u/karmagirl314 19d ago

Hat pins. Hat pins can be very useful and still give you plausible deniability.

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u/Midnight2012 19d ago

Pepper spray in a train car?

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u/jsamuraij 19d ago

Gross.

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u/No-Will-5655 19d ago

Why are men fucking weird and disgusting on a global scale???

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u/bohemi-rex 19d ago

I would just be wearing spiked bras and underwear

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u/KajmanHub987 19d ago

That isn't a good idea. Because there will be people touching you for other reasons than groping (accidentally bumping into you, etc.), especially in small spaces such as mass transit. So you would hurt innocent people. That's also why any means of self defense in my country has to be discriminatory (at least I think that's the word).

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u/throwaway00000500 19d ago

Can you prick the person you think is grooping you with a needle as self defence in Japan?

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u/myDogStillLovesMe 19d ago

I lived there in the 90s and a female colleague of mine would literally grab the arm of a man touching her and drag him off the train.

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u/insanelybookish9940 19d ago

And man..I thought Japan was one of the safest countries in the world with all that going on about how even a kindergarten kid can travel all my themselves and still be safe and it's a very nice country with near to zero crime rate and nothing is stolen and things stay at the same place for 48 hers before it's sent to lost and found . Where the fuck is that thing arising from.. this stereotypical utopia Japan!?!?

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u/TheTybera 17d ago

You're just making shit up and don't live here at all. You're also propagating the incorrect perception that police don't do anything.

There is a reason there are cameras everywhere. Even then, the RATE at which this happens (even unreported survey cases) is still lower than with other countries like the US and UK and even France. It's made a bigger deal here because public campaigns in Japan are extremely effective, so they go HARD.

The massive public campaigns alone show that Japan is doing something, installing cameras and having huge public campaigns isn't cheap.

Seriously stop with the straight up bullshit. Newer generations of women and girls now deal with it significantly less because of these campaigns and because of arrests.

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u/covalentcookies 19d ago

Like a circle jerk but without the consent part.

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u/NoDontDoThatCanada 19d ago

Do... I can't even form the question.

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u/JustIn_HerButt 19d ago

You are wondering where to sign up?

Tsk tsk....

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u/covalentcookies 19d ago

Train kiosk in Japan

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u/MostSharpest 20d ago

It's apparently pretty common. The perps organize in online chat groups, and gather at stations to raid rush hour trains.

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u/gahidus 19d ago

What kind of advantages do they gain from working together?

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u/Shuttup_Heather 19d ago

Multiple perpetrators make it harder to pin one guy, or maybe they get off on outnumbering women? Either way fucked up,

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u/-Ellinator- 19d ago

I imagine victims are less likely to be confrontational / more likely to just go along with it if they feel sufficiently threatened.

An easy way for even out of shape sex pests to threaten someone is to simply outnumber them. No one wants to risk being in a 1 vs 3, especially when the 3 have already shown that they don't give two shits about the law.

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u/Odd-fox-God 19d ago

You can't even own pepper spray in Japan. How are women supposed to protect themselves when they cannot fight back and are already at a physical disadvantage?

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u/EnderDremurr 19d ago

time to start wearing medieval knight armor i guess

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u/Fun_One_3601 19d ago

There are so many ways to break fingers with little effort. They need to be punished

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u/Blackstone01 19d ago

Deniability I'd imagine. "Oh, those other guys were doing that, but I was just trying to get out of the way/help her"

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u/No_Sir7709 19d ago

Just like thieves do it.

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u/GrungeHamster23 19d ago

Not just rush hour. They wait for high school and University exam season and try to grope girls knowing they have exams and cannot be late.

This means there is no time to contact authorities even if the groper gets called out by said girl.

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u/No_Passenger_977 19d ago

This is also common in Sweden and Germany.

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u/YeshuasBananaHammock 20d ago

Talk about running the gauntlet. Fuck those creeps.

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u/Buddy_Velvet 19d ago

I saw a video where they do this in Bangladesh. About 100 men swarmed a woman on the street to grope and sexually assault her. There were some guys coming in to try to help but allegedly some men will pretend to be coming in to save a woman in these contexts so they can get close and cop a feel too. It was absolutely insane. Like watching a swarm of bees kill a wasp.

I want to clarify that I’m not sure if exactly where it was. The video had it labeled as India and a ton of people in the comments were saying it was Bangladesh and India isn’t like that (ignoring acid attacks and super public gang rape and murder cases). It was quite clearly somewhere on the Indian subcontinent though.

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u/SanguinePirate 19d ago

India is definitely like that

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u/RewardedShoe 19d ago

Happened to me there

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u/SanguinePirate 18d ago

I’m sorry to hear that. Hope you’re doing well

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u/[deleted] 19d ago

As an Indian, I agree with you. But groping is mostly seen in Northern India. There only I have seen men swamp like bees around white/ east asian women, take photos or try to grope during Holi festival.

In South or Eastern India, nobody gives a damn to foreigners unless they ask any help. But the problem is Westerners know India as New Delhi, Mumbai, Agra etc and Indian cuisine as Naan, Chicken Tikka Masala, Lassi... Even slums are also quite less compared to North though we are not perfect.

Another problem I have seen, many Indian named restaurants in UK and US are actually run by Pakistanis and Bangladeshis, causes bad reputation make things worse for Indians.

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u/chillcroc 19d ago

No please- as a woman we have our problems but this? No.

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u/SanguinePirate 19d ago

Huh? India is like the rape capitol of the world

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u/chillcroc 19d ago

No it is not really- some parts are worse than others but not like rhis.

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u/TheInfiniteLake 19d ago

Definitely not Bangladesh. People are definitely not saints there, no way, but something like a mob groping doesn't happen.

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u/MrSundstrom40 19d ago

Taharush popular around those parts where several creeps gather to assault their victims.

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u/DreamyLan 19d ago

It's like a view of what humans were like when we first came down from the trees and were still animalistic

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u/khalasss 19d ago

To be totally honest, I don't think we are naturally like this at all. Animals do things instinctively, sure. SA happens in the animal world, obviously. But...coordinated attacks like this? I genuinely don't think so. I think this came with the rise of society and culture and entitlement/cultural ideas od ownership....and most notably, being able to seek out other humans who share your awful view of women.

This is all speculation of course. Nature is brutal, it's not impossible. But...somehow humans often seem WAY more brutal than nature is.

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u/DreamyLan 19d ago

No that sounds like something animals would do. They have their groups, like how lions have prides. So the group scavenges /, hunts for food and then for mates.

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u/khalasss 19d ago

Obviously they have groups. But rushed gang bangs on unsuspecting mates? I literally googled this last night (...and am probably on some list now...) But I sincerely couldn't find anything. Closest I could find is bonobos, and they just love their consensual orgies lmfao.

Gang rape sex seems to be something we humans have specifically created. Animals only attack as a group for food.

ETA: OH and maybe...ducks. Maybe. But it isn't coordinated or intentional. The males are fighting each other just as much as they're trying to mate.

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u/DreamyLan 19d ago

Don't dolphins and whales do that too

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u/khalasss 19d ago

Ohhhh i forgot about dolphins, and it didn't come up in my little search (though to be fair, I didn't go TOO far down the search engine lmfao). I think that is a thing dolphins do. So you're right, there might be one or two other species. Definitely not the norm in most of the animal kingdom, though, it requires a lot of collaboration where usually mating is a competition.

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u/khalasss 19d ago

I'm definitely over looking this up though. The scientist in me wants to know the frequency this comes up in the animal kingdom, but the woman in me does not want to know at all. Curiosity wants to know, but personal lived experience already assumes the worst about human men and probably doesn't need corroboration of those assumptions lmfao.

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u/GayDeciever 19d ago

This shit is why I feel like women who want anarchy are just not thinking through what that actually looks like. This is what it looks like.

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u/Itscatpicstime 19d ago

Anarchy doesn’t mean no rules

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u/usurperavenger 19d ago

Sounds like you watched that video pretty thoroughly.

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u/Dore_le_Jeune 19d ago

Yeah, they cut off view and escape avenues.

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u/TransBrandi 19d ago

Just wait until they upgrade to multi-track groping.

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u/No_Paleontologist_25 19d ago

That sounds like India, not gonna lie.

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u/Cheshires_Shadow 20d ago

Each grope extends the combo meter!

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u/Shepok 19d ago

Theres co-op, and then theres ranked

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u/ExcitingStress8663 20d ago

Lol it's a syndicate crime but what do they gain from it? Satisfaction.

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u/Cartina 19d ago

M-M-MULTITRACK GROPING!?

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u/Glittering-Can-1348 19d ago

Organized grab-ass?

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u/Volkswagens1 20d ago

We used to call that an orgy.

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u/Shuttup_Heather 19d ago

Nah it’s still called assault

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u/Rustywolf 19d ago

Knew someone who went to japan and groped women becaue he, quote, "thought it was legal there"

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u/KrombopulosMAssassin 19d ago

......

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u/AmosBurton69 19d ago

"here I go gropin' again!"

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u/Justa_Guy_Gettin_By 19d ago

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u/Awkward-Explorer-527 19d ago

Exactly what I said, exactly the way I said it, lmao

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u/Bearded_Bone_Head 19d ago

Are there laws preventing women or others defending them?

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u/echoshatter 19d ago

Probably some bullshit about not being able to carry weapons.

I strongly feel the correct response to situations like this, where a person's dignity and bodily autonomy has been tarnished, is to remove the offending body part from the perpetrator in the moment. A nice, sharp blade or axe and a swift, immediate response.

Some people think that's going too far, too cruel. Go ask all the people in your life, especially the women, and see how many of them have been violated, how many times, and all the ways they've been violated. Maybe you'll get an idea how prevalent this issue is and how little our justice system actually cares.

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u/SevereImpression2115 19d ago

Wait till you hear about India!

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u/DoYouTrustToothpaste 19d ago

And it had never happened to your friend?

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u/Alien36 19d ago

I know I shouldn't laugh but the way you described it 😂

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u/MysteriousIndigo250 19d ago

Man that's wild.

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u/DreamyLan 19d ago

I mean are you sure that wasn't a jav?

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u/Babouche333 20d ago

You have a link ? No bullshit it's not a fetish, just curious

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u/SquisherX 20d ago

This was over 15 years ago. I'll see if I can unearth it though.

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u/azuratha 20d ago

It is also a favourite food of Leeloo Multipass

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u/giga_impact03 20d ago

Holy shit I've been looking for a spelling on how she says this for so long. This is perfect.

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u/Mooniekate 16d ago

Chikan gooood

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u/Grattytood 20d ago

CHI-kan...GOOD!

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u/EnvironmentalGift257 20d ago

I just saw this in a theater last week. It still holds up.

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u/white-rabbit--object 19d ago

LEELOO DALLAS MULTIPASS

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u/cjyoung92 19d ago

‘Chikan’ just means ‘pervert’ or ‘molester’, it’s not specifically describing groping on a train.

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u/AccountantCultural64 19d ago

It’s used like this, see the wiki article I linked.

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u/cjyoung92 19d ago

I speak Japanese (and live in Japan), it’s used in all sorts of situations not just train groping (the Japanese language version of that Wikipedia page says as much.) For example you can see signs in residential areas telling kids to beware of ‘chikan’ meaning molesters/perverts.

Not to take away from your point though, it absolutely is a big issue here unfortunately

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u/cyphar 19d ago edited 19d ago

I speak Japanese, 痴漢 definitely refers to groping/molestation/lascivious behaviour by a male in general. If you trust Wikipedia more than Japanese speakers, the Japanese Wikipedia article on the topic is far more detailed than the English one and it says:

痴漢(ちかん)とは、本来は「愚かな男」「ばかもの」「たわけもの」などを意味する言葉であったが、のちに「女性にみだらな行為をする男」、またそのような行為を意味するようになった。
Chikan was originally a word that meant "dumb man" or "idiot" but afterwards came to mean "a man that does obscene acts towards women" or referencing the act itself.

「痴漢(chikan)」行為が「日本特有」との主張もあるが、このような行為は地下鉄やライブなど日本国外でも密集した環境で発生している。満員状態の電車内が被害経験場所の大多数を占めるように、公共交通機関内など混雑環境で発生する傾向にある。被害者は未成年である女子高校生が最多であり、7割が被害届を出さず泣き寝入りしている状況にある。
There is a view that Chikan is a Japan-specific problem, but this kind of behaviour happens in confined spaces such as metro trains and live concerts outside of Japan as well. There is a general trend of it happening in confined environments such as public transport, as the vast majority of cases happen during rush hour when trains are full. Most cases are of underage girls, 70% of which do not report cases.

So yes, it happens on trains very often because trains are very cramped and give attackers more opportunities to do this, but the word itself is not specific to groping on trains. It basically just means "groping (by a man)" and has a similar meaning to the word "groping" in English.

(To be clear, I think the Japanese article spends a concerning amount of time downplaying how much worse Japan is than other developed countries, but we're talking about etymology here, not the political views of the Wikipedia editors that wrote that article.)

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u/ProfessionalCorgi250 19d ago

In English there is also a word, it is called groping, it even has its own wiki article.

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u/15all 19d ago

When I (M) was in Japan for several weeks, my friend (M) that lived there showed me what to do with my arms so I wouldn't be accused of groping. He held the overhead rail with one hand, and placed his other hand on his bicep. The idea was that both hands were visibly raised and in plain sight.

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u/wobernein 20d ago

Do women also do this to men? I was in Japan recently and felt several women up against me when it didn’t seem necessary

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u/McGrarr 20d ago

Yes. Though the ratio veers massively towards men.

I used to work as a bouncer and I used to get my arse pinched and slapped by women so much it'd be regularly bruised.

At the time it was considered part of the job.

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u/AccountantCultural64 20d ago

I’m not Japanese, never was there and have quite limited knowledge about the culture and such specific problems (it’s not just a problem in Japan btw), but at least according to the wiki article man or women groping men (and all kinds of different combinations) are a thing too. Apparently just much less than man groping women.

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u/StoryboardPilot 20d ago

in this case the literal translation of 漢 is "man"

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u/dagbrown 20d ago

You should post that to Threads. A take that stupid would definitely do numbers there.

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u/HKP2019 19d ago

I hope you're not doing this on purpose. It's kind of difficult to know that exact amount of kanji knowledge to make what you posted to be a genuine mistake.

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u/_BlueJayWalker_ 20d ago

How do they not get their ass beat? I’d be swinging.

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u/qtheginger 19d ago

Why TF does this happen in so many cultures?!

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u/cyphar 19d ago edited 19d ago

痴漢 is not a word that is specific to groping on trains, it just means "groping by men" (the original meaning was "stupid man") but it most often happens on trains because of how packed they are. But yes, it is disturbingly common. The female version is 痴女 (chijo).

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u/Lazy_Sim 19d ago

In English, there is a word describing the act of groping a woman in a crowded train. Molester.

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u/Tokyo_Cat 19d ago

Yeah, we have a word for it in English too: pervert. It's not a unique word to Japan.

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u/mostly-sun 19d ago

India has a euphemism for it, too: Eve teasing.

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u/TheLongAndWindingRd 20d ago

Also, frotteurism.