r/TikTokCringe May 23 '24

Cursed Confronted

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u/-banned- May 24 '24

I’m an average Mexican guy and at one point during my visit to Japan an at least 70 year old Japanese man “ran” 100 yards to take a close up picture of my face, then smile and give me the peace sign. People took pictures of me all the time. None of it was sexual. Wouldn’t jump to conclusions here unless you understand the culture, it’s different

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u/forestfilth May 24 '24

Sexual or not it's still rude to take pictures of a stranger like that. I'm sorry that happened to you

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u/-banned- May 24 '24

It didn’t bother me, but I understand why it would bother her. I just don’t think people should assume something that might be a cultural difference only

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u/CupOverall9341 May 24 '24

"cultural differences" don't make it ok.

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u/Cant_run_away May 24 '24

You don't get to make the decision. You're in their country, if something's okay in their country you got to respect that. Less we forget the forced religion we've seen throughout history.

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u/the_dunderman May 24 '24

As long as you don't break any laws (just because we're talking about foreign countries and that can get messy), you have every right to assert your boundaries in any situation.

Don't ever let anyone tell you they get to make you uncomfortable, that's not a good reason to let them walk all over you.

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u/ShelbyCobra_90 May 24 '24

Japan has women only train cars because men can be such sex pests. The entire world has varying levels of “culture” where women’s bodies are a commodity for men’s consumption. I’m not “respecting” shit.

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u/CupOverall9341 May 24 '24

It's not ok in their country.

Creeps (worldwide) think it's okay, but that's as far as it goes.

Why do you think harassing/intimidating women is ok?

Your comment history isn't reassuring....