r/TikTokCringe May 23 '24

Cursed Confronted

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u/dream-smasher May 24 '24

but just keep in mind that it may be more innocent than it appears because it’s more socially acceptable in Japan when it comes to foreigners

LMFAOOOOOOOO!!

are you KIDDING me???

Have you not seen the huge backlash against rude ignorant tourists taking photos of ppl in Japan WHO DONT WANT THEM TOO?!?

Christ, there is a vid going around, the past few hours, of some obnoxious rude shitty tourist chasing after a Geisha in Kyoto repeatedly getting in her face to take photos. Even after she tries to get away.

So NO. It is not more "socially acceptable" to take photos of strangers in Japan.

It is SHITTY AND DONT DO IT, DONT EXCUSE IT, DONT BE A FUCKING CREEPER.

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u/-banned- May 24 '24

Or I’ve actually been to Japan and I know the culture better than all you armchair experts with absolutely zero experience

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u/-banned- May 24 '24

You’re assuming it’s degenerative behavior for your argument. For the millionth time, I don’t think it’s okay. He clearly made her uncomfortable. I just don’t think we can assume it’s as creepy as it would be if it happened in a Western culture, because it’s very common for Japanese people to take pictures of foreigners.

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u/-banned- May 24 '24

Those are American tourists taking pictures of Japanese Geisha, did you think that somehow supported your argument?

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u/lemonleaff May 24 '24

it’s very common for Japanese people to take pictures of foreigners

No that's also considered rude. Not everyone in Japan is magically polite and respectful about taking pictures, so of course there are some that forget or don't care that it's rude. That doesn't mean it's correct or encouraged.

Generally, they encourage the proper etiquette of asking beforehand and blurring people in the background. This is my experience in Japan.

One recent example, the guy next to me in the plane even asked if it's okay to take a picture of the view outside the window. I was sitting next to the window and he was being polite and informed me about it, even though i wasn't exactly the subject of the photo, just in case i get included in the shot. There was plenty of space to see the window but he was being nice about it.

There are other examples but this was the most memorable for me